Some memories and knowledge of Ted's amazing life... by Sol & Jen, Howie & Sari
It is with profound sadness that we mourn the death of Ted Cole and share this information with the Walden community. Ted died after a courageous and lengthy battle with leukemia. We extend our deepest sympathies to Elaine, and to their sons Ryan and Cory, and their families. Details about Ted’s funeral can be found here.
With the greatest respect for Ted’s family, we wanted to share some of our memories and knowledge of Ted’s amazing life.
In 1970, Ted realized the beginning of a lifelong dream. Shortly after finding a vacant and perfect piece of farmland outside of Bancroft, Ontario, Ted founded and established Camp Walden – a camp where children and young adults could spend summers together in a most natural and nurturing environment.
Anyone who visits Walden is awestruck by the foresight Ted had in building the camp. At the young age of 29, Ted demonstrated brilliance beyond his years. Camp Walden’s village layout and timeless architecture is, quite simply, beauty beyond words.
Ted’s astounding vision in camp design was matched equally by his skills as a Camp Director. In his 34 years as Walden’s Director, Ted’s grass-roots, no-nonsense approach combined with a provocative sense of humour and wit touched the lives of tens of thousands of campers, staff, and their families.
Ted’s leadership of Walden was further enhanced when Ted married Elaine and together they became a powerful camp directing duo. Ted and Elaine moulded Camp Walden into a home where memories and friendships have been created over so many Walden summers. Their sons Ryan and Cory were very accomplished Walden campers and staff. The Cole family came to be synonymous with camping at its purest.
Ted’s passion for folk music was one of the cornerstones of his camp direction. Since his days in high school, Ted worked to hone his skills as a singer, songwriter, and instrumentalist. Ted was an accomplished professional musician in his own right. The songs that Ted loved and shared often contained messages of peace and individual courage. Ted never hesitated to share this music and these themes with campers of every age.
When Ted and Elaine transitioned Walden into new ownership in 2003, Ted’s commitment to Walden’s continuity was unending. His steadfast support and guidance ensured that the next chapter in Walden’s history would be maintained. Ted’s annual singsongs were a constant bridge between Walden’s past and future allowing a new generation of campers and staff to appreciate camp’s rich heritage.
Although many think of Ted in the context of Camp Walden, he was also very influential in the formation of several other camp programs and the camping community as a whole. Madawaska Camps and the Scarborough/Toronto Arts Camp Programs are two whose communities will remember Ted for his music and dedication. Ted was a past president of the Ontario Camping Association and served for years as a member of its Executive. Ted’s views on camping have impacted camps all over Canada and the world. Even though his active career in camping had come to an end with his retirement in 2003, Ted continued to participate in children’s camping in Ontario. He and a few camp colleagues established a charity and organized the finances and administration to establish Kids In Camp – a charity devoted to providing camp experiences to children with financial need.
Henry David Thoreau, author of Walden wrote “Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined.” This quotation provides a glimpse of the philosophy upon which Ted’s life and the Walden community have been built. We will celebrate Ted’s life – a life lived with conviction, confidence, and zest. Generations of campers and staff have been touched forever by Ted’s unending passion for music, activity, and relationships. Generations of future Waldeners will benefit from the legacy he has left behind. His spirit will continue to guide us in significant and positive ways.
He will be very dearly missed.
Ted’s family has asked us to notify the Walden community that donations in his memory can be made to:
Kids In Camp
For many years, Ontario Camping Association members have been discussing the value of a charitable organization that would further expand the opportunities for more children to attend camp. In June 2005, Ted and Elaine Cole hosted a meeting in their home to discuss how we might turn this dream into a reality. From this gathering, the foundation for Kids In Camp was laid. After steadfast work by Ted and many others, Kids In Camp was approved as a registered charitable organization with the Canada Revenue Agency in June 2008. (Charitable No. 84555 0169 RR0001)
Kids In Camp was incorporated on August 4, 2006 and is dedicated to the following objectives:
• To provide bursaries, subsidies and other forms of financial assistance to make it possible for children from low income homes or with special health or other special needs to be able to afford to attend Ontario Camping Association member camps;
• To conduct promotional, educational, marketing, research and other activities in the furtherance of this purpose.
Ted Cole was proud to serve as the first President of Kids In Camp.
Donations to Kids In Camp can be mailed to:
Kids In Camp c/o The Ontario Camping Association
#301, 250 Merton Street,
Toronto, ON M4S 1B1
For more information about Kids In Camp, please contact OCA Executive Director Aruna Ogale at: aruna@ontariocamps.ca or 416-485-0425
Jonny, Ryla, Sari and Romy Lightman write...
Not possible!!! A man as vital, energetic, and possessing such vision could be taken so soon. A man who brought so much love and passion and humour to every project and relationship he encountered. A man who picked Elaine, the strongest and most thoughtful woman I know, to be his life partner in a blessed marriage and thriving business. One complemented and completed the other - the 2nd mother and father to thousands of Walden campers. A supportive and nurturing father to two other outstanding personalities in Ryan and Cory. A patriarch of the Cole family who influenced and touched all of his in-laws, and nephews and nieces and all of their children in a continuous profound manner. Ted developed a special and unusual loving relationship with his mother-in-law Pearl. This was always a special joy to see the two "in action" with one another - loving, respecting and kibitzing. A generous and welcoming host who opened his house and cabin - whatever the occasion. A man with an outsized personality and wicked, nasty humour that never failed to perversely entertain. A learned scholar on a diverse number of social, political and arts related topics, fuelled by his passion for reading newspaper, magazines and journals. A man whose decisive and assured leadership style provided comfort to our Camp Walden community. He was a "fan" of great people from all walks of life - from Dylan to that great junior counsellor in the Colour unit. He celebrated talent and attracted the best to work with him. The Hearts boys loved his company - he was a self deprecating "loser" when the cards were bad - never showing frustration in his title of "Reneg King". I worked at Walden for 19 summers, and took on the role of Ted's 2nd for ten wonderful years that were filled with laughter, learning and great stories. We developed a profoundly deep connection where we could "read" each other's thoughts and emotions. My family has not stopped thinking about Ted - Walden shaped our lives and we are so grateful for the experience. We were with him during his struggles with his health, especially over the last year. He beat several near-death episodes very recently - we anticipated his fighting for years to come. Things have changed significantly as of today - I will miss you forever.
Jonny, Ryla, Sari and Romy Lightman
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Walden Campers and Staff from the past and present wrote...
Ken Levine November 24, 2008 03:35 PM
Do sad to hear of the passing of this generous and gifted man. I was counsellor in summer of 1980, and Ryan was in my bunk. Ted helped me be not only a better counsellor but a better person.
Michael Jordan Halbert October 20, 2008 03:53 PM
Dear Elaine, I recently read of Ted's passing. While I haven't seen either of you more than once or twice since our Arrowhead days, your activities were always easily followed through Walden. Ted was the best Director Arrowhead ever had and, though I was not yet a counsellor when he left, I had 10 years experience there by which to gauge my impressions. Ted was my friend and confidante, not just a Director, and I grew immeasurably from our relationship. Ted infused my mind with new thoughts and possibilities, new knowledge and attitudes too: For years I'd acknowledge the thoughts of others with, "This is true", mimicking Ted's posture and delivery. I'd forgotten all about it until now while sitting down to remember him and write this note, pulling it back from the deep decades. Ted introduced me to the world of music and - astoundingly - to Oscar Brand with his cast of colourful characters named, among others, Charlotte and Miss O'Flanagan. What authority figure, in his right mind, would do such damage to the psyche of fragile post-pubescent Jewish boys under his charge? Only one - Ted Cole. I believe our Group repaid his kindness by introducing the aforesaid ladies to the Arrowhead PA system at top volume, thereby distributing the riches of our Ted-sourced musical discoveries pluralistically among our fellow campers of all ages. Your husband was relatively restrained in restoring order and doling out consequences. I could go on........ Ted was this beatific presence that permeated every aspect of our summer lives and it barely diminished over the ensuing 10 month hiatus. You felt good about life and about yourself. The only reason I didn't follow you both to Walden was my love for Belle Ewart; I just didn't need to leave. The decision, retrospectively, was painful but likely correct. I know I missed much but, as you can read, I received much - certainly enough to love Ted for what he'd given me. Our Sages say that, of all the Crowns available to us in this lifetime - that of Kingship, Priesthood, Success and Knowledge, to name a few, the only Crown to endure beyond us is the Crown of a Good Name. Toviah ben Kalman's is a grand beacon of light never to be diminished. May you and your family be comforted by our Creator in the gates of the mourners in Zion and Jerusalem.
Evan, Tali and Propst Family September 29, 2008 05:54 PM
Our thoughts are with you and we hope to see you soon.
Jeffrey Lawrence Pollock, Esq. September 21, 2008 09:32 PM
BTW, we Pittsburghers would be remiss if we did not invite and any and all Torontonians, Montrealers, Hamiltonians, etc. to our reunion of singing, story-telling, and other highlights. You are all welcome to join us in celebrating Ted's memory. Jlplaw15217@aol.com or (412) 421-2232
Jeff Pollock September 21, 2008 09:21 PM
I only just learned of Ted's passing down here in Pittsburgh, PA (USA): my belated condolences to Elaine and family. I have such fond memories of Ted, his guitar, his camp, being a part of the unique collection of "the CITs of '78", teaching waterskiing, performing in Omni, ... that I'd go back to that age and that era in a heartbeat. His inspiration, leadership, and creativity indelibly shaped my memories and are forever etched into my dreams. It is my hope that Steve, Michael, Grant, Sandy, Wendy, Betsy, Amy, and Lane will have a "toast" in Ted's honour at my home at a Reunion in his honour over this (American) Thanksgiving holiday.
Jeff Pollock September 21, 2008 09:21 PM
I only just learned of Ted's passing down here in Pittsburgh, PA (USA): my belated condolences to Elaine and family. I have such fond memories of Ted, his guitar, his camp, being a part of the unique collection of "the CITs of '78", teaching waterskiing, performing in Omni, ... that I'd go back to that age and that era in a heartbeat. His inspiration, leadership, and creativity indelibly shaped my memories and are forever etched into my dreams. It is my hope that Steve, Michael, Grant, Sandy, Wendy, Betsy, Amy, and Lane will have a "toast" in Ted's honour at my home at a Reunion in his honour over this (American) Thanksgiving holiday.
Joe Freedman September 15, 2008 09:12 AM
Dear Elaine, I was so sorry to hear about Ted's passing...he was an inspiration to many. I certainly enjoyed the times I was able to play some guitar with him and, needless to say, I loved my time at Walden. I wanted to pass on my condolences to you and the boys. Best, Joe
Esther Cole September 10, 2008 10:41 AM
Ted was really the first nephew I became acquainted with. From a first relationship to a memorable Bar Mitzvah, to a first music recital. When Ted appeared, hand on his chest singing an operatic aria we all broke up--then a first for camp --spending many memorable weekends seeing the amazing relationship between campers and Ted, and even more remarkable the relationship between staff and Ted. A first when Ted took me on a hair-raising snowmobile ride. A most wonderful visit just a short month ago when he and Elaine came to visit Norma. I treasure that afternoon. And then just a little time in the hospital to hold his hand and hope for more. His time with us was far too short--but Elaine, Ryan and Cory how fortunate you were to have him as long as you did. A special partner-a special father and a special Grandfather. Love you all. Auntie Esther
Lara Pulver Brodkin September 05, 2008 12:28 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory: My thoughts are with you all. I have been thinking of Ted and hearing his soothing voice so much since I learned of his passing. Ted's singing was a major part of my childhood, starting in cabin yellow when I was 8 years old. His songs were passed on to my children as infants and they can all sing along with me now. The lyrics of the songs he chose to sing were truly inspiring. I remember looking for Ted's guitar in the mess hall on a rainy day, he certainly knew how to clear the skies. I wish you all strength at this challenging time in your lives. Ted will live in our hearts forever. Lara Pulver Brodkin
Noah and Robin Belman (Kutner) September 03, 2008 04:01 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, We were so saddened to hear about Ted's passing. How can one man have touched so many people so profoundly? We met at Walden and, under Ted's supervision, we grew up together. Together we learned Ted's philosophies of life. We were influenced through his leadership, through his straightforwardness and through his music. These philosophies affect our life in every way. They affect the way we parent, the way we work and the way we play. The secret to our happy life together is the common philosophical foundation we developed at Walden. We're lucky to have had Ted in our lives, his spirit will live in our memories forever. All our love Robin and Noah
Alicia Wendland-Leany September 03, 2008 11:41 AM
I would like to express my deepest sorrows from myself and my family. I would have liked to have been with you in your time of need but was unable to receive the email in time. I remember Ted with fond memories even though I only spent one summer with the Walden family. Alicia Wendland-Leany, Cory Leany, and (baby) Ayla Leany
Alicia Wendland-Leany September 03, 2008 11:41 AM
I would like to express my deepest sorrows from myself and my family. I would have liked to have been with you in your time of need but was unable to receive the email in time. I remember Ted with fond memories even though I only spent one summer with the Walden family. Alicia Wendland-Leany, Cory Leany, and baby Ayla Leany
Alicia Wendland-Leany September 03, 2008 11:41 AM
I would like to express my deepest sorrows from myself and my family. I would have liked to have been with you in your time of need but was unable to receive the email in time. I remember Ted with fond memories even though I only spent one summer with the Walden family.
Alicia Wendland-Leany September 03, 2008 11:41 AM
I would like to express my deepest sorrows from myself and my family. I would have liked to have been with you in your time of need but was unable to receive the email in time. I remember Ted with fond memories even though I only spent one summer with the Walden family.
The Sliwin Family September 02, 2008 10:46 AM
Ted was an amazing person who we will all dearly miss. His impact on our lives will forever be felt and appreciated. Together with Elaine, Ted created a place that my brothers and I have called home for a combined thirty five summers (and counting). He built a setting where we have made countless memories and friendships. Not only was camp somewhere where we enjoyed our summers, but it is a place where my brothers and I became who we are today. Through Ted’s actions we learned many life lessons that have helped to shape our character. By building Walden, he indirectly taught us to follow your dream and great things can happen. Ted showed us what the meaning of commitment meant first-hand; whether it be family or towards camp. He gave everything to his family, Elaine and to camp as well. Ted was sincere and would always tell you the way it was. You could always trust that whatever he was saying, he was being honest. He taught us that there is nothing more important than your authenticity and that being genuine and true is the only way to be. He loved music, the outdoors and camp. He taught us to find a passion, immerse yourself in it and enjoy the times and memories you may have doing so. His vision and enthusiasm is admirable and Ted was someone who we respected and adored immensely. I personally, loved the times I got to spend with Ted playing ping pong in the Counselors Lounge. I enjoyed the conversations we had and the life lessons he taught me, and I will always cherish those times. Ted and Elaine opened their arms to us and we will forever have a special place in our heart for them. Ted, thank you for everything you gave us. You will forever be missed. Dear Elaine, Cory, and Ryan, please know that we are thinking of you at this difficult time. We hope you take comfort in knowing that Ted touched so many lives and made a significant impact on each one of them. He will be missed by all. Love, David, Daniel, Noah, Marilyn and Sammy Sliwin
Stephanie Foreht-Roulston September 02, 2008 10:03 AM
Dear Elaine and Cole Family, Reading through all these words of love brings tears to my eyes. The many years that me and my family spent at Walden & Camp Robin Hood shaped us into the people we are today. Ted was a very special man and his dreams will live on in our hearts. I still sing the songs to my children he sung to us around our camp fires. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Stephanie, Bruce, Bailey & Bradley Roulston
Richard Korentager September 01, 2008 11:40 AM
Ted made an indelible impression on my life and helped shape the man that I have become. For that I am eternally grateful. I feel privileged to have known him and considered myself to be a friend. He will always be part of me. Elaine, my deepest sympathies to you and the boys. Love, Richard Korentager
Serena Richmond August 31, 2008 11:32 PM
To : The Cole Family.... My name is Serena Richmond, I was a camper of Walden many years ago.I don’t recall the year that I was there. But I read in the JCN about the passing of ted ! I remember him so very well! He was so sweet to me when I was there, as a camper ! I am profoundly saddened to have learned of his passing on this date. Sunday August 31st,2008.Elaine !I cannot recall if I had ever met you, in person at the camp when I was there. It’s been many years since then ! I’m sure that I had ! Please know that I send you & your family my deepest condolences. I cried when I read the news about the passing of ted!Elaine .... I’m so shocked by the news. When I first came to the camp : as a camper ..... I came to the camp by bus; & at that time ted had came to receive me so warmly! I had always remembered how much he loved singing, & playing his guitar with the campers. God Bless you & your family Elaine! He had never been forgotten when I was at the camp. And He will never be forgotten even now !
Frances (Grader) Ezerzer August 31, 2008 04:03 PM
Dear Elaine and Family, Just read in the CJN about Ted's passing. We are indeed saddened by this news and want you to know that we are thinking of you. This Memorial Book is certainly a tribute of love and admiration of Ted - may you find solace in your wonderful memories. Sincerely, Frances & Samy Ezerzer
Darryl Stal August 30, 2008 09:14 AM
I was terribly saddened to hear of Ted's passing. I was introduced to Ted's Walden back in 1981 and spent four wonderful summers there. Needless to say, he was instrumental (in many ways!) in creating the wonderful environment that kept the campers and staff coming back year after year. Ted will be missed by all who knew him. My condolences to you all.
Patti Thom August 29, 2008 11:17 PM
Dear Elaine and Cory and Ryan I cannot tell you how deeply saddened I was to hear of the passing of Ted/ I know that he was a devoted husband and loving father and I cannot imagine the pain that all of you must be going through right now. I want you to know just how much Ted affected my life as a mentor and friend. I know that you must hear this from hundreds and thousands of people but I wanted you to know that Ted was my mentor and good friend. he stuck with me through thick and thin and he helped me to see a path that I knew deep down I was meant to travel. I will always be grateful for the profound impact that he had on my life and for his friendship that spanned so many years. My love and deepest condolences are with you all. I will have hugs when I return Patti xoxo
Cindy Wagman-Greiver August 29, 2008 11:40 AM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Corey, I am deeply saddened to hear about Ted's passing. I was out of town and just heard the sad news. Ted will always carry a special place in my heart. My six years spent at Walden allowed me to become the person I am today. He was such a special person and touched the lives of so many children and young adults. He always reached out and took the time to get to know everyone. He had a gift. He was able to provide memories for people that they would never forget. Memories to last a lifetime. Now, in turn, we will never forget Ted- the person who gave us so much. His music provided joy to all and his words of wisdom will never be forgotten. I express my deepest condolences to you and your family. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. With Love, Cindy Wagman-Greiver
CAPPE FAMILY August 29, 2008 09:26 AM
Dear Elaine, Ryan, and Corey, Our hearts go out to you at this time. From 1990 until 2006 our family has been part of yours at Walden and we look at you, Elaine, and at Ted as having helped to raise our children. Walden was home-away-from home, a safe place, and a safe-haven. Ted was truly inspirational and guided so many so wisely through the summers of their childhood and adolescence. We thank you and wish you comfort and patience. Leonard, Cheryl, Jeffrey, Sonia, and Mitchell Cappe
Ruth Ellen Greenwood August 28, 2008 11:47 PM
we were very sorry to hear of Ted's death - he was a unique and special person - we hope your wonderful memories of him will bring you comfort - our thoughts are with you - with sincere sympathy, Ruth Ellen and Sheldon Greenwood and family
Gwen and David August 28, 2008 05:57 PM
David and I just wanted to say how much we will miss Ted. Of course when thinking of Ted our first thought is always Camp Walden. I never went to camp and I was a bit apprehensive sending Beth at 9 away for one month. It gave me great comfort knowing that she was going away to a camp with her cousins and owned and run by David's cousins. After a couple of days I got the phone call from you telling me that Beth was doing great and all my worries were gone. Every summer that our kids went to camp they had the time of their lives. I remember when Beth once asked why camp couldn't be 10 months long and school 2 months long, (on occasion I wondered the same thing). Camp was my kid’s favourite time of the year for many years. I loved it because I knew they were well taken care of and not only did they make lifelong friends but they connected with the extended Cole family that they normally would only have seen occasionally. I hope all the wonderful memories we and everyone else have of Ted will be a comfort to you at this difficult time. Love Gwen and David
Brenda Benattar (Charendoff) August 28, 2008 05:28 PM
Elaine, Ryan and Cory ... after reading so many of these tributes, you are reminded that there truly was no one quite like Ted Cole. Although my time spent at Walden was short, I have so many wonderful memories. Thank you!! Elaine, the "W" will burn forever in our hearts.
The Isakow family August 27, 2008 01:43 PM
Our thoughts and love are with you all. Ted was loved by many and will always be in our hearts. Lots of love always Brenda, Bruce, Matthew, Rachel and Benjamin IsakowT
Cindy Michaelis August 27, 2008 12:04 PM
Elaine, My deepest condolences to you and your family. It is evident in viewing this memorial book, that even though Ted is gone, his legacy lives on...Each one of us have taken a little part of him...for some it is his great sense of humour, for some it is his love for music, and for others it is the memories of years spent at Walden...for me, it is the twinkle in my daughter's eye when she listens to his cod and the sound of her singing “We are Marching to Pretoria”. Although she never had the pleasure of meeting Ted, his songs have brought her so much happiness. Thank you Ted for Passing the Music on.
Neil Greenbaum August 27, 2008 10:33 AM
There are so many wonderful memories and friendships to reflect upon with the passing of our dear friend and mentor. Ted allowed us to play, to laugh, to sing, to grow and to learn in the paradise of nature. The Walden experience will forever be embedded in our minds and our hearts. We all got to take many life lessons from the Cole family playbook that ultimately shaped who we are today. It is with sadness that we mourn the life of a man who gave so much to others and asked for so little in return. Thanks for making your dreams our reality.
Jeannine and Alan Banack August 26, 2008 11:41 PM
There are no words to adequately describe Ted and his impact on people. He was larger than life. He was always true to himself and his values and not influenced by anything mundane or shallow. If he loved you, you knew it and you considered yourself lucky to have the affection of such an extraordinary man. The tribute evening for him and Elaine was one of the most genuine outpouring of affection that we have ever seen. All that was heard by me at tonight's final campfire was Ted's voice. The wealth of experiences at camp as Camp Doc came flooding back. Ted truly provided the medium where memories could grow and be engraved forever. We are saddened by his loss and will truly miss him.
Jeannine and Alan Banack August 26, 2008 11:41 PM
There are no words to adequately describe Ted and his impact on people. He was larger than life. He was always true to himself and his values and not influenced by anything mundane or shallow. If he loved you, you knew it and you considered yourself lucky to have the affection of such an extraordinary man. The tribute evening for him and Elaine was one of the most genuine outpouring of affection that we have ever seen. All that was heard by me at tonight's final campfire was Ted's voice. The wealth of experiences at camp as Camp Doc came flooding back. Ted truly provided the medium where memories could grow and be engraved forever. We are saddened by his loss and will truly miss him.
Jesse Farb August 26, 2008 10:27 PM
My condolences to the Cole family and friends. Life has strange timing. Today as I work back the years in an autobiography I googled camp Walden to trace back some of my most memorable summers some 10+ years ago. I am saddened to hear of Ted's passing and my life has been impacted by the vision Ted created, shared and included all of us campers in over the years. Thank you to Ted and the entire Cole family. With deepest regards on this occasion,
Lysa Lash August 26, 2008 09:11 PM
I was deeply saddened to hear of the loss of Ted. His memory will love on and will stay with me. Ted and entire Walden family were such a huge part of my life that rarely a day goes by without remembering those times. At home, we often play the Walden CD and my kids love singing along. I wish you strength during this hard time. With love, Lysa
Brian and Jeff Gray August 26, 2008 06:53 PM
Thanks for creating the best place on earth. Thanks for being part of our growing up. We will miss Ted very much.
Daniel Abrams August 26, 2008 02:11 PM
Dear Elaine and the rest of the Cole Family, Please accept my deepest sympathies for the passing of Ted. He was truly a wonderful and amazing man, and certainly touched the lives of so many. I was blessed to be a part of the Walden community for 9 amazing years. A home away from home for the summer months, it would not have been the same without Ted and Elaine - summer parents for all of the campers and staff of Camp Walden. I will always remember the "laughter and smiles". As flesh and blood we are only here for a moment in time, but the impact we have on the people around us is eternal. The legacy of Ted Cole will undoubtedly live on forever.
Naomi Zittell & Jared Stein August 26, 2008 01:46 PM
Ted was so many things to us. A role model who inspired us to follow our dreams and who showed us (through his partnership with Elaine) what a real love story looks like. A teacher who taught us lessons in authenticity, generosity and humour. A boss who knew how to be both respected and adored. And a magnetic friend and musician who, with a mischievous sparkle in his eye, made everyone want to be around him. He was also a man who, during a peaceful sail with Jared at Walden during the summer of 2001, correctly predicted that we would get married. When Jared asked him how he knew, Ted explained that he'd seen so much and just knew these things. Ted did see and know so many things, and Walden was a wonderful opportunity for us to get a glimpse of the world through his special lens. We are so grateful for our time at Walden with Ted & Elaine. We are saddened by our shared loss, and send lots of love to Elaine, Ryan & Janet & Emma, Cory & Elizabeth and all of Ted's family and friends.
Jeff Epstein August 26, 2008 01:13 AM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Janet, Cory and Elizabeth, and Emma, Colder is the wind that blows at the end of this summer, at the end of this era. Hollowed is the sound of the music that I recall from my summers at Walden that I play now for my son Alexander in the hope that it will brighten his life like it did mine. But stronger glow the memories of those days, and after each sad thought about Ted's passing, a smile comes to my face as I think about just how much he brought to my life through camp. My heart goes out to you now, but so does my gratitude for sharing Ted with me. Gone, but never, ever forgotten! All my love,
Richard Kauffman August 25, 2008 11:32 PM
Please accept my very deepest and heartfelt sympathies on the loss of Ted. Some of my very fondest memories are being with Ted at both Camp Arrowhead and then Camp Walden....he was a warm, kind and understanding person, with a quick wit, a great laugh, and a sea of musical knowledge and talent. Even though it has been many years, those memories are like yesterday. He will be missed always.
Ferne Sherkin-Langer and Jack Langer August 25, 2008 11:28 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Corey, "W" was the way it began. The first summer I was at Walden I was 15. It was the second year. We were pioneers and Ted was the leader. He was living his dream as the dreamer keeps a dreamin' and we were there that summer along for the ride. Our ideas were important and Ted believed in Walden and more importantly, Ted believed in us. It was a magical time. Being at Walden that summer is etched in my memory. I remember so much of what we did saw, ate and sang, discussed, argued and felt. We felt like the chosen children. It was a time of growing and growing up. We built the steps to the waterfront, stayed up all night, made our own rules and then broke them. It seemed to take a half an hour to walk to every meal and activity because the camp was so spread out. It gave you time to enjoy the dusty green paths and a chance to find those tiny toads to play with. Song sessions with Ted on banjo and guitar, and ping pong on the back porch and canoe trips with Bernie Lightman. Camp fires and cook outs and trips to Bancroft. Whether we thought it up, or Ted did, it seemed anything was possible. The next summer I went back and met my husband Jack. Town night started with an introduction by Joanne Samuel and the rest is history. We tell our kids, had it not been for Ted and then Elaine they wouldn't be here. At the staff banquet we were each awarded a half of a Walden W for our performance and standard line "It’s strictly Platonic". Elaine, Ryan and Corey, I want you to know that our experience at Walden changed our lives forever. Ted was a force and his legacy continues through each of us and our children. E now you’re nearing the end, N now we'll say it again.... May you be comforted knowing that it is rare for one person to have given so much and inspired so many people. With our love, Ferne and Jack
Camp George August 25, 2008 09:52 PM
Dear Elaine, On behalf of the families and staff at Camp George, we want to express our deepest condolences to you and your family. Ted's vision and commitment to provide children with a deep love of the outdoors, music, friendship and teamwork made Camp Walden so special. His experience and leadership will be terribly missed. May his memory be a blessing.
Denise Levinter (Goldstone) August 25, 2008 09:10 PM
Elaine, My heartfelt sympathy on the passing of Ted. As a CIT at White Pine; that voice and guitar around the campfire ring in my head as if it was yesterday. How wonderful to be blessed with all the fond memories that have surrounded his life. We will all miss him. He was a great man.
Jason Berman August 25, 2008 08:38 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, I was so deeply saddened to hear of Ted's passing. It was particularly hard given my distance away in Halifax, Nova Scotia and the fact that I was unable to attend the funeral and come to the Shiva. For many years, Walden was a major part of our family's life. Mara, Yali and I all grew up at Walden. In many ways, camp helped us grow and become the people that we are today. Camp provided us with skills, self-confidence and some of the most meaningful relationships in our lives. Ted embodied all that was camp. He was larger than life and this iconic status makes it that much harder to believe that he is gone. But his energy, enthusiasm, sense of humour, banjo playing and classic unique "Tedisms" have continued to inspire long after we left camp and will continue to do so for many years. My young children already know all the words to "Go tell it on the mountain" and "Green grow the rushes ho". As I write this, I have my copy of "In Wilderness Is the Preservation of the World" beside me. This book was given to be on the anniversary of my 10th summer at camp. I treasure this book and the inscription that Ted wrote. Ted, thank you for this and for everything that you and Elaine have given me and my siblings. I am thinking of you at this most difficult of times and also thinking of happier easier times - sitting by the campfire, the swim marathon, Walden Games, the burning of the W and the haunting yet comforting sound of Ted's voice in the stillness of the night and the sound of the crackling fire...
Lori Foreht Eisler August 25, 2008 07:56 PM
Dear Elaine, Cory and Ryan, I am so sorry for your loss. I am deeply saddened by Ted's passing. Ted was a special man who really understood and could relate to children. My memories of Camp Walden are so fond and anyone who had the opportunity to know Ted will carry a little piece of his music with them forever. My deepest sympathy, Lori
Lisa Karachinsky August 25, 2008 04:41 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan, Cory, All the ways away in New York City my thoughts are with all of you. Since Ted's passing, I feel like I've lost a member of my extended family. Your entire Walden family has. As I am certain you have heard so often this week, Ted was loved by so many of us. I will always remember him fondly and hold him close to my heart as I have all my years at Walden. It really is amazing too, how much of an impact his songs have had on all of us. I've found it so endearing to see everyone's status' on facebook to have one liners from all our sing song favourites! With deepest sympathy, Love, Lisa Karachinsky
Mark and Barbie Panzer August 25, 2008 12:09 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, How do we express the heartbreak we all feel for you? Growing up with you at Walden and the guidance and support Lenny and Jodi benefited from you and Ted will stay with them their entire lives. Ted was my very first and most favourite counsellor. It's amazing to me that a relationship that began over 50 years ago at Tamarack continues today. I can honestly say that the only good memories I have of 'Boy Scout' camp in the summers of 1958 and 1959 were of my time spent in 'Cozy Coles' cabin avoiding, as much as possible, any 'knot tying' or 'hunting and tracking' exercises. I had a much better time listening to 'Teddy's' folk record collection.(Who else had a record player at camp in those days?!). Ted was the first to play 'The Weavers at Carnegie Hall' for me. He was the first to expose us to the 'banjo' at campfires and singsongs.(and probably the last one to maintain the tradition at camps today!) Back in those days, for a little lost kid who HATED the routines of a regimented Boy Scout camp, Ted was irreverent, he was nonconforming, he could tell the senior staff to 'leave his campers alone' so we could do our own thing! Teddy was FUN! I will always remember him and thank him for those times and those that followed.
Sam Banack August 25, 2008 11:41 AM
Elaine, Ryan, Cory, I am so sorry for your loss, Ted was an fantastic cousin, teacher, friend... and I will miss him This amazing outpouring of emotion and memories is such a testament to Ted! There is no one that doesn't connect their fondest memories of summer, nature, camp, friendship, growing, bonding, learning to that amazing man. He will be missed, but more importantly, he will be remembered through a legacy of love that he inspired in thousands of people.
Johanna S August 25, 2008 08:45 AM
"You don't know what you've got, until you lose it, you don't know what is what...til you can't use it. The things we love will grow and grow, lots of things to do and so...now's your chance to have your show, don't ever lose it"... I'll have Ted's beautiful voice ringing in my ears always.
Ted Beauparlant August 25, 2008 08:30 AM
Claudette & Myriam join me in expressing our sincere condolences Ted
Judy Litvack August 25, 2008 07:25 AM
Dear Elaine and family, we just learned of Ted's passing, and want you to know that it was a privilege to know him. Reading all the very beautiful testimonials reminds us that there are still extraordinary people who are able to profoundly touch so many lives. What a magnificent legacy of love and friendship he has left. Please know that our thoughts are with you, and that we extend to you all our deepest sympathy. Judy and Mark Litvack
Susan Ginsberg August 24, 2008 11:52 PM
Dear Elaine and family, my earliest childhood memories include Uncle Carl, Aunty Pearl, Ted and Bruce. To read all the incredible messages is truly amazing. I will always remember Ted's wonderful smile. The last time I saw him , he gave me a big hug and then asked " how's Mom?" I will always remember him with great fondness and am saddened by all our loss. Susan
Susan Ginsberg August 24, 2008 11:52 PM
Dear Elaine and family, my earliest childhood memories include Uncle Carl, Aunty Pearl, Ted and Bruce. To read all the incredible messages is truly amazing. I will always remember Ted's wonderful smile. The last time I saw him , he gave me a big hug and then asked " how's Mom?" I will always remember him with great fondness and am saddened by all our loss. Susan
Susan Ginsberg August 24, 2008 11:52 PM
Dear Elaine and family, my earliest childhood memories include Uncle Carl, Aunty Pearl, Ted and Bruce. To read all the incredible messages is truly amazing. I will always remember Ted's wonderful smile. The last time I saw him , he gave me a big hug and then asked " how's Mom?" I will always remember him with great fondness and am saddened by all our loss. Susan
Marlene landa August 24, 2008 10:25 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, I am deeply saddened by the news of Ted's passing. The loss of such a fine man is palpable. None will experience the loss as acutely as you, but it must be very comforting to know that so many will share a tear with you. What better legacy can a person have than to know he has left this world a better place for having been here! Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Michael & Marlene and family
Melissa Rodriguez August 24, 2008 10:06 PM
Elaine, Ryan and Cory, my thoughts are with you. At the age of 7 I first came to Camp Walden and spent many happy summers there. To this day, I tell stories of my canoe trip adventures and "movie nights". I was privileged to have been touched by the beauty of Ted's creation and I am thankful for that.
Leah Belfon August 24, 2008 08:43 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, I am the person you comforted in the lounge on the evening before Ted's passing. I could not believe that, in your time of pain, you took the time to help and support me. You are truly great people, and I can see how your husband and father loved you so much and you him. From what you told me, he was truly a great man, and all the goodness he did throughout his life will be a blessing to his memory. G-d has promised us eternal life, and I know Ted has it. May He comfort you and bless you and your families always. It is an honour to know you. Sincerely, Leah Belfon
Lynn Garfinkle Etinson August 24, 2008 08:27 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, I have been without words for your loss and ours. As so many people have expressed, Ted was a mentor, a friend and a parent to me during my 13 summers at Walden. My most cherished memories, friendships and the development of who I am today started and grew through so many shared firsts and a common appreciation for music and nature. I was privileged to learn about the closeness of your family while watching Ryan and Cory grow up and Elaine, you always knew how to talk to us and help us learn about life and love. My passion for camp will forever be because of Ted and I will miss him terribly. May his memory serve as a blessing- I am sending my energy, love and hugs your way as you get through this difficult time.
Matthew Lightman August 24, 2008 08:05 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, I'll never forget my time at Camp Walden, and one of the things that made the experience special was Ted's presence. He could energize a group as large as the entire camp at a sing-a-long, but took the time to have more intimate gatherings around a campfire where he imparted wisdom and many of the more interesting and lesser known Bob Dylan songs! Seeing him after every meal at the microphone making announcements was also a reassuring constant in the camp experience. He became fondly associated with traditions such as the Walden Games opening, and with a variety of catchphrases for different occasions up until the end of camp ("everybody on the buses!"). I know he will be sorely missed by me and the rest of the Walden community.
Karen Emsig August 24, 2008 04:38 PM
Elaine & family: I was so sorry to hear about Ted this past week and send you my deepest sympathies. I have such fond memories of him from his days at 'White Pine' and his love of music. To this day I have never heard anyone play the banjo as brilliantly....he had such a gift that he generously shared with all of us. I will always remember his wonderful smile. I wish you strength to get through this difficult time.
Barbara Miller August 24, 2008 02:46 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, I was so saddened to hear of Ted's passing. Ted had the ability to change people's lives in profound ways just by being himself. My three years at Walden beginning as a C.I.T. in 1973 remain as one of the most important and wonderful memories of my adolescence. My heartfelt condolences to you Elaine and to your family. Barbara Miller
Diane Shrott August 24, 2008 02:03 PM
When I think of Ted I think of Walden and the best summers I ever had. I think of the friendships I made and still have, Ted and his music, sing songs, guitar and banjo, the all day programs, and of course at the end of every summer the burning of the "W". I remember the canoe trips that I so actively took part in and being thankful for the opportunity to experience paddling and portaging through some of the most beautiful lakes in Temagami, Killarney and Algonquin Park all because Ted thought tripping should be an integral part of everyone’s camp experience. I think of the musicals put on every summer and the one I remember the most was when the CITs of 1973 put on Sweet Charity in which I played Daddy Brubeck and it was after that play that Ted first got to really know me. When my camp days were over and my life moved on and I had children of my own I knew in my heart that Walden would be the only place for both Steven and Margot to spend their summers. Thank you Ted, for providing us with the experiences to help shape who we have now become. We will never forget you. Elaine, Ryan and Cory - Our thoughts are with you during this very difficult time. Diane, Steven and Margot
The Zuk's August 24, 2008 01:13 PM
So it’s time to set you free Watch you sail away from me Though I’ll miss you when you do I'm with you (Joan Baez). With thanks Elaine to you and Ted for Walden...Are thoughts are with you and your family at this very difficult time.
Elliot Baker August 24, 2008 11:01 AM
To Elaine Ryan and Cory; I send my deepest sympathies for your loss. I have many warm memories of Ted and Walden and was fortunate to know him.
Sid and Hazel Dick August 24, 2008 07:15 AM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory and family we send our love and deepest sympathy to you all. Sid and I remember Ted with love and gratitude for his great-heartedness and kindness. There is a saying in New Zealand - where as you know I have spent time - when a great loss occurs: “Ka hinga te Totara (a great, respected and revered New Zealand tree) I te ao-nui” “A Totara has fallen in the great forest” He leaves a legacy of love and humour, wit and wisdom, that has enriched the lives of all who were fortunate enough to know him.
"Nappy" (Eric Green) August 24, 2008 12:20 AM
Elaine, Ryan and Cory, I am so sorry for your loss. I am also sorry that I could not make the funeral as I was out of town with my family. It seems odd, but I was actually wearing my Walden sweatshirt when I received the message of Ted's passing. But I suppose it's not that odd at all; Walden has forever shaped who I am, and I have Ted to thank for that. I still remember meeting Ted for the first time when he came to my parents' house in the early '80s to do the famous 'slide show' that got me and my sisters to start at Ted's Walden. Those thirteen summers with Ted and the Coles were the greatest of my life and gave me many of the people closest to me to this day. Elaine, Ryan and Cory, while Ted was taken from you far too soon, I hope you are comforted by the fact that he has left such an indelible mark on all of us Waldeners. We should all be so lucky to leave behind such a profound legacy.
Heather (Cherniak) Segal August 23, 2008 11:54 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan, and Cory, My deepest sympathy to you & your families on the very sad loss of Ted. I was so sad to hear the news. Ted will always hold a special place in my heart -- he was an incredible camp director and person, and I will always cherish the many wonderful memories I have of Camp Walden and of Ted. With much sympathy, Heather (Cherniak) Segal Walden CIT & Staff Member 1982 - 1986
Jonathan Madras August 23, 2008 11:45 PM
Elaine, Cory, and Ryan: all of this is hard to believe, and my heart and deepest sympathies go out to you. Ted was an inspiration and a role model to so many people, in so many ways, and we Waldenites have much to thank him for. My 12 summers at Walden had an indelible impact on me - I learned who I am as an individual, and who I can be as part of a team. I learned to love music, canoe tripping, campfires, team spirit, and many other things which were part of Ted's extraordinary creation. My best friends are my Walden friends, and my best memories are my Walden memories. I am forever grateful to Ted, and honoured to have been a part of his Walden.
Jonathan Madras August 23, 2008 11:40 PM
Elaine, Cory, and Ryan: all of this is hard to believe, and my heart and deepest sympathies go out to you. Ted was an inspiration and a role model to so many people, in so many ways, and we Waldenites have much to thank him for. My 12 summers at Walden had an indelible impact on me - I learned who I am as an individual, and who I can be as part of a team. I learned to love music, canoe tripping, campfires, team spirit, and many other things which were part of Ted's extraordinary creation. My best friends are my Walden friends, and my best memories are my Walden memories. I am forever grateful to Ted for that.
Dyan ( Goldfarb ) Kirshenbaum August 23, 2008 10:35 PM
I remember when Ted came to my house in the fall of 1970, wearing cords and a sweatshirt (I think it was yellow). He brought his slide projector and in it, a collection of images: an old barn (A&C and ceramics), a smaller log cabin (Snooka), a farm house (the pig's sty), and wide open fields. He gave me a copy of Walden and on Civil Disobedience by Thoreau. That sounded good to me. My parents were sceptical and that made it more appealing, so I went. The summers of 1971, 72, and 73 were like no others. The camp was huge with winding paths, rustling trees, and tall grass that blew against your legs at night when you crossed the big field to get back to your cabin. Mornings were greeted with music...I remember a group called It's A Beautiful Day and a song called Waiting For the Sun. There were all night movies projected on a sheet put over the tuck-shop with sleeping bags in main camp. There was the Doug Henning magic show and the gembouree in Bancroft, Sympathy For the Devil, and Emerson, Lake, and Palmer in Saratoga Springs, where Ted took the entire Seeker unit over the border in a school bus for a weekend of incredible music and other crazy activities that will forever be etched in my memory. Ted's enthusiasm for life, nature, music, and adventure were in every aspect of that camp experience. The drama trip, the Madawaska river trip, and the amazing friends I have to this day - including my best friend and husband, Howard, whom I met my first summer there. Noah, Roxy, Howard, and I send our deepest condolences to you Elaine and to Ryan and Cory.
Emma Grosberg August 23, 2008 10:00 PM
Going to Walden completely shaped my life. It is part of my identity. It is where I made lifelong friendships and memories that will last for years. I owe this all to Ted and Elaine and the amazing phenomena that was Walden. It is impossible to lose Ted. Ted lives forever in the memories, music and love of generations of Waldeners. Just like Cory said, "Share him with me, like for so many summers, I shared him with you". Elaine, Ryan, Cory and family - thank you so much for sharing Ted with us.
Bernie Lightman August 23, 2008 07:55 PM
After reading these posts, all the great memories of Ted come rushing back to me. I first met Ted when I was a camper 15 years of age at Camp White Pine. Many of the guys in our cabin cooked popcorn on sternoburners after lights out. We were good at hiding what we were doing from nightwatch, but when Ted was on duty he would come in, have some of the popcorn, and joke around for awhile. We thought that was so cool. Our paths crossed next when he was directing the play "Spoon River" for Holy Blossom. I tried out and got a part. Ted made sure that we worked hard but had fun while rehearsing. Later I heard that he was starting a new camp. I missed the first year (1970) of Walden, but joined the tripping staff in 1971. It was a Mecca for tripping because Ted thought it was essential to the camp. I stayed for five years, moving to unit head and then, for the last two years, program director. Working with Ted, and the great staff that he hired, was a joy. Every year I was at Walden I looked forward to the summer with great anticipation. Ted gave us the freedom to be creative. I made a number of lifelong friends during those summers. Ted also introduced a number of us to a new game: hearts. Thus was born the Thursday night ritual that lasts to this day, though I missed many of the early years. I rejoined the group when Merle and I moved back to Toronto in 1987. Then came another gift from Ted--working with him again at Walden in the early 1990's for three glorious summers. So over the years I had the privilege of interacting with Ted in his many roles, including camp director, master hearts player, theatre director, and gifted guitarist, banjo player, and singsong leader. I feel fortunate that Ted was an integral part of my life. When I think of the best moments, Ted was often there. Ted was larger than life--the world now seems a little smaller without him. To Elaine, Ryan, and Cory, may the love expressed by all of us be of some consolation to you and your extended family.
Myles & Carolyn Gordon August 23, 2008 03:00 PM
Dear Elaine and Family: Our sincerest sympathies to you all at your far too early loss of Ted. May the memories of his high quality life, both personally and professionally, sustain you in your grief. Fondly, Myles and Carolyn Gordon
Merle Lightman August 23, 2008 02:45 PM
In the early 1970s when Bernie suggested I work at a summer camp called Walden instead of a stuffy office job I was sceptical. But after meeting with Ted I knew this would be much more fun than working in an office! And it turned out to be such a wonderful experience that in the early 1990s Bernie once again suggested we go back and work at Walden -- this time taking both our children, Matthew and Ilana plus a mother's helper. Well, again I was sceptical since I thought it would be hard to recreate the great summers of the early '70s. But again we had a great experience (Ilana especially loved rides on the ATV with Ted) and when it came time to send Ilana on her own at 7 years old she ran on the bus with a big smile and gave Bernie and I a very happy wave goodbye. We knew that she was in good hands with Ted and Elaine at the helm and both Matthew and Ilana stayed at Walden for 10 years each. Elaine, Ryan and Cory, no words can express your great loss but may you be comforted by the many good memories of those who shared a part of Ted's dream.
Lorie Shekter-Wolfson and Lorne Wolfson August 23, 2008 02:11 PM
Elaine, Ryan and Cory, in looking at all the tributes the same themes keep coming up. "Ted was a mentor to me, Ted guided me, Ted changed my life and Ted was a character". I cannot really add to these themes except to say my beginnings with Ted were many years ago as a CIT at White Pine when Ted was my CIT co-ordinator. We were the Centennial CITS and Ted was our fearless leader. Ted taught us many things that year not the least of which was how to break all the rules ( sorry Joe), how to say it as it was and how to be yourself. Ted was also my counsellor on the canoe trip to Algonquin Park where I had the opportunity to really get to know him and to talk with him. He was there for me when I needed him. Although I saw and spoke to Ted many times after that year, as my own children grew up at Walden, that canoe trip will be forever seared in my mind.
Josh Z. Bonder August 23, 2008 11:23 AM
Just thought I'd post a unique memory of a unique and very special man: I was one of the head organizers for the colour war when Ted was frozen by an evil villain. To create this effect for the break, I had to make a replica of Ted's head, neck and shoulders. I asked his permission to essentially make a death mask, and he gladly obliged. I spent a long evening covering Ted in Vaseline and plaster gauze, while we chatted about jazz and folk music, art and camp. The ridiculousness of the situation was certainly not lost on him, and while we joked and conversed into the night, I felt so lucky to have had one on one time with Ted. I don't know where the life-sized bust of Ted is now, but I'll always treasure my memory of that night and the chance I had to better acquaint myself with such an incredible person. Ted will be sorely missed, but he has left no shortage of ambassadors for a music, a way of treating people and a way of seeing the world who will "pass the music on". My deepest condolences to Elaine, Cory, Ryan, and all the rest of your family and friends. Sincerely, Josh Z. Bonder
Stephen Brown: Walden 1971-1978 August 23, 2008 10:32 AM
Ted changed my approach to life. Beginning at Camp Arrowhead in 1968, Ted was one of the first adults I knew who understood how to listen to kids (me). A summer can't go by without fond reflections on the way Ted and his camps have informed my story.
Jacqueline Arendt August 23, 2008 04:54 AM
Elaine and Family...I was very saddened to hear about the passing of Ted. He always held a very important place in my heart as he played such an integral part in my daughter's life. Ted was like a father to Kerri and she loved him greatly. Their relationship went far beyond employer/employee and I was grateful for it. He will be missed by many people but we are all lucky to have had him in our lives.
Joel Ross August 23, 2008 12:45 AM
Elaine and Cole Family, I am deeply saddened by the news of Ted's passing. How very grateful and blessed I am for having known such a wonderful man. For so many years, Ted guided us, taught us, and supported us, not only as campers but as a friend. He was a very loving and kind person. We will always carry the warm memories in our hearts and souls. Thank you very much for the wonderful gift that you have given us all.
Marcia & Sam Schaffran August 23, 2008 12:41 AM
Dear Elaine&family There are not enough words that could adequately convey my feelings for your loss. Ted was a legend who touched so many lives adding happiness to numerous families including my own. He will surely live on in all our memories and hopefully all your wonderful memories of a beautiful life together will sustain you through this most difficult time. Unfortunately we were unable to attend the funeral because we are in California with our family. Our grandchildren(Walden campers)reminisce about Ted and his famous singsong and all their happy camp experiences that were made possible because of Ted's dream. Please accept our sincere condolences and know that you are in our thoughts.
Ali Oshinsky August 22, 2008 11:23 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, I spent 10 years at a camp in Pennsylvania before crossing the border into Ted's dreamland. Once at Walden, I never wanted to leave. The experiences I had, the friends I made, the laughter we shared will last a lifetime. I thank all of you for showing this American kid what the camp spirit is all about. Ted has left an indelible mark on my heart and I will never ever forget him.
Deborah Silverberg August 22, 2008 10:00 PM
Elaine, Cory and Ryan – I can’t express how saddened I was to hear the news of Ted’s passing. My summers at Walden meant so much to me and are memories I will always cherish. I am so grateful to Ted and Elaine for the special place they created and feel lucky to have been a part of it. Thanks for all the great times!
Kerri & Dan Bouffard August 22, 2008 09:47 PM
Something is so wrong in the world to have such a tremendous force taken from us so early! We still had so much to learn and enjoy just by being in Ted's heart. Working with Ted for so many years - starting as employee and then being welcomed in as part of the family. Ted had such a huge influence on my life and I absolutely would not be where I am today if he didn't see something in me that no one else seemed to see. He gave me such confidence and guidance and unconditional love at every turn I can't imagine the days ahead without him here. I feel so honoured for all the memories I have of all the many many hours I worked with Ted and Elaine. I will treasure the memories I have of my many years at camp, having my newborn son at camp, meeting my husband at camp and then being able to get married at camp. But the memory I will treasure the most is that of having the honour and privilege of Ted walking me down the aisle on my wedding day to begin a new exciting journey in my life. Ted has always played such an integral part of my life and I have always been able to draw such strength and courage from him and I still need him so much in my life. Elaine, Ryan, Cory you are family to me and I grieve so deeply for your loss - but the "music" must continue. Emma and the new "little one" his blood runs thru your veins as well and you will both become such remarkable people because of this - make the most of the music in your lives in honour of the greatest man you could ever hope to know. Ted is going to continue to look after and support all of us in his own special way and we have to believe that he is smiling down on our accomplishments and forever playing that banjo and guitar. Ted - we love you and grieve you and honour you - for always.
The Halbert Family August 22, 2008 09:20 PM
Dear Elaine, Cory and Ryan, It is hard to accept that Ted has passed on but he will always live on in the hearts of our entire family! Ted had such a positive impact on all of our children ,while at Camp Walden, he was a true father figure and mentor. Highlights of our kids summers were always ,"cooking with Elaine" and "sing-songs with Ted"-precious memories that will live with them forever. Ted was so instrumental in creating this magical camping experience, one which became our children’s' "home away from home" and one which was very hard for them to leave. We felt very blessed to have had Ted in our lives and watching over our children in the caring way that he did. Our hearts go out to your whole family at this very difficult time and we hope that each passing day gets a little easier for all of you. With much love, Gail, Danny, Jenna , Lauren and Cole Halberet
Sheldon Cutler August 22, 2008 07:35 PM
Elaine, The nine summers that I spent at Walden, created memories and friendships that will last a lifetime! The camp experience that you and Ted created was truly unique. While passing through Renfrew Ontario a few weeks ago, I saw the sign for Camp Walden and decided to stop in and show my wife the place where I went to camp. It was a very nostalgic day, as I recounted the many great stories and moments in my past. THANKS TED AND ELAINE FOR MAKING THEM HAPPEN!!
Elaine Clapham-Brotman August 22, 2008 06:50 PM
Dear Elaine, I was very saddened to hear about Ted's passing. Very quickly I found myself remembering the 9 years that I spent at Camp Walden, which started the first year that Walden was open. He was a man who had a dream, he started Camp Walden and he was responsible for creating so many fond memories and lifelong friendships that are so important to many people, including myself. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Carol Clarfield August 22, 2008 05:06 PM
Dear Elaine: I am so sorry for your loss. After reading the letters of condolences I am struck by the enormous influence and impact Ted had on the lives of others. The love and friendships that he embraced in his life are a wonderful testament to the man he was and his enduring influence. The first time I met him was at your beautiful home on Lake Hardwood. Even in that short visit I remember your warmth and generosity and how welcomed you both made me feel. My heart and thoughts are with you and your family. Love, Carol
Judy Phillips August 22, 2008 05:05 PM
Although I only spent a couple of summers at Walden, they left an indelible print, so much so that when I hear certain songs, I immediately smell the trees at Walden. There was never a question as to which camp my daughters (April and Jackie Engelberg)would go to. I have very fond memories of Ted, some very comical. My sincere condolences to you Elaine and to your family.
David Cohen August 22, 2008 03:52 PM
I remembering falling in love with Bob Dylan's "Mr. Tambourine Man" after Ted sung it at camp. However when I got home and downloaded the song I was upset because Dylan's version didn't do any justice to how Ted sung it. Thanks for all the great years and songs!
Elizabeth Cole August 22, 2008 03:22 PM
Ted Cole’s Eulogy For a moment, give back the piece of Dad you keep and help me put the puzzle together. Share him with me, like for so many summers, I shared him with you. Was he your life companion, family, friend, role model, mentor, inspiration? Whatever you needed Dad to be, he was. From international rock star, to local legend, he offered his soul to anybody who came by it honestly. And still, after the hundred lifetimes he lived in sixty-seven years, he could still surprise the ‘Windmills of your Mind.’ This was his impact. This is what drew us back over and over again. If ever there was a time for songs to be sung, or a need for a camp fire, I couldn’t find a better occasion. Stop crying and start singing, take off your formal wear and don the Walden colors. Watch Bugs Bunny, play catch in the park, or take a nap on the couch. Dad would have wanted it this way, he was the infinite dreamer. He inspired all those who were lucky enough to walk in his wake to dream a little harder, to search a little longer, to fight a little stronger. This was his infectious gift, his poetic vision, that the world we live in, is the one we create. Think family, think nieces and nephews, think cousins, uncles, brothers, aunts and friends. Think grandchildren and children, think Mom. Dad was our folk king, and we, his walls of love. With banjo strings and stories he tied us together to plug the hole he leaves behind. Lead by example, pass the music on, ride off into the western sunset, catch a dragonfly inside a jar, thump your paddle into calm waters and push forward, because that is where you will find Dad. Encourage yourselves to step out your front door, to find your own path, to see the world and make it yours before it makes you. It was his simple plan with a simple philosophy that made him a trailblazer. This is what we can take from a man who has given everything and asked for nothing. Take care of those who surround and love you, it will come back tenfold. Hot dogs and beans will taste better, leaves will be greener, Orion’s belt will shine brighter, guitars will sound crisper and a kiss with your wife will ripple an eternity. If we slow down the moments we take for granted and let the wine breathe, this is Dad’s legacy. Share it because it’s something worth sharing. Plant it because it’s something worth growing. Breathe it because it’s something worth inhaling. And when it all comes to an end, smile because it happened and cry because it’s over. Our loss is your loss, and yours, ours. Embrace the hurt, let your eyes well up and burn your own ‘W.’ Dad, your “love is like a circle, let’s go round one more time.” (C.C.)
Alana Reitapple Blitstein August 22, 2008 01:46 PM
For years I have been drawn to the following quote of Henry David Thoreau: "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Life the life you've imagined." But I never really put it together with how I saw Ted until the other day when I realized that he lived his life just that way. Looking back, I remember how passionate he was about what he did with his life - from Walden, to music, and especially his family. Ted was always real. True to himself. True to others. Inspiring. Ted had such a positive impact on so many lives - mine only one of them. And I will always remember the life lessons I learned from my beautiful and treasured summers at Camp Walden; and from Ted and Elaine and their family. Ted, I smile every time I think of you. You will live on in my heart and memory always. My love and hugs to you all.
Terry Pollack & Barbara Gross August 22, 2008 11:33 AM
Elaine, We are so sad for your loss. Ted was one wonderful man!! We will always remember the New Year's Party we spent together at the Wolfe's home. Sincerely, Terry and Barbara, Cleveland, Ohio
SUE-ELLEN DANSON & BARRY JACOBS August 22, 2008 11:03 AM
MAY OUR THOUGHTS BE WITH THE FAMILY AT THIS TIME, ALL HAS BEEN SAID THAT COULD BE SAID ABOUT TED COLE BY ALL HIS FRIENDS, FAMILY, ASSOCIATES & PAST CAMPERS & STAFF. I REMEMBER TED FROM TAMARACK, HE CAME FROM A GOOD FAMILY AND CARRIED ON THE TRADITION OF BEING A GOOD, KIND & THOUGHTFUL HUMAN BEING. WE LAST SAW TED ELAINE AT WINNABEGO FOR A WEDDING AND WHEN I SAW HIM MEMORIES FLOWED BACK. HE WILL BE IN ALL OUR MEMORIES FOR AN ETERNITY.
August 22, 2008 10:45 AM
My memories of Walden and Ted are wonderful. Having spent 2 summers at Walden with my entire family I can recall many a great evening with the Coles and the Banjo. Since then I have pulled out the old record and sang along to all our old favourites.... W - that's the way it begins A - that's the second letter in L - that is the third D - in the middle of the word E - now we're nearing the end N - now let's sing it again W-A-L-D-E-N that is the way to spell WALDEN. It will always bring a smile to my face Thanks Ted...you will truly be missed.
Hoppy (David) August 22, 2008 10:40 AM
I remember walking back to my cabin one afternoon from the swim docks during free period. I walked past Ted's field and through the comic path (today the Colour unit path) towards the front office/tuck shop. It was quiet. Rays of sun shone through the trees creating a still and familiar warmth as you'd pass through them. Stepping over the supporting wood beams of cabins that were in the path you could hear birds chirping and bees buzzing. And I remember walking past a cabin and hearing Rosalita for the first time, stopping and listening to the music. Time stood still. I was 8 years old. The memories we have from camp were simply incredible. It was a time of wonder in a place we felt most safe. A place we were allowed to grow and learn and love in our own time. A place that inspired a generation and a place that taught us to appreciate nature and the beautiful surroundings we called home. I along with so many others who have learned the "Walden Way" will forever be different than those who went elsewhere. We were so fortunate to have this experience and to be exposed to a way of thinking that helped mould us into the people we are today. It was a place of wonder and it was truly a gift. Thank you Ted and thank you Elaine for sharing this gift with me and so many others. Our memories will keep us young and forever remain about a Camp that allowed us to dream. "For our hands are strong and our hearts are young and the dreamer keeps a dreamin' ages long..."
Corinne Bassett-Osak August 22, 2008 10:23 AM
Dear Elaine and family; I am so saddened by your loss, and the loss to so many people. My memories go back many years to when Ted was director of Camp Arrowhead and you, Elaine, sat alongside of him, taking the camp to the greatest heights. It was Ted's vision that canoe tripping be an important part of camp life and so he build a wonderful canoe tripping program at Arrowhead. Those early experiences in tripping have stayed with me, and to this day I canoe trip with my family and friends. As I embark on my annual 10-dayer tomorrow, I will dedicate the trip to Ted. Ted and your family made so many people's live that much better - know that all good thoughts are with you and the family during this very difficult time. Cori
Gary & Marcy Kimmel (Diamond) August 22, 2008 10:22 AM
Wow! It's been a crazy few days since having heard about the passing of Ted. Marcy and I were both absolutely shocked and saddened by the loss of someone who helped to shape and mould the people we have become today. Elaine, Ryan & Cory our hearts go out to you during this very difficult time, just be comforted in the knowledge that both you, Elaine and Ted, through the magic of Walden, have helped to create friendships and memories that will last until the end of time. With Ted’s passing I believe we all feel a sense of having lost a connection to a place that has touched us all in a very special way; for that Cole’s we thank you. All our love, Gary & Marcy
Howard Rosen August 22, 2008 10:14 AM
Dear Elaine and Family: My heartfelt condolences to you. My wonderful memories of the summers of 1976-77 ( the two best summers of my life) were as a result of a vision of Ted Cole.
Samantha Spencer August 22, 2008 09:49 AM
Elaine, Cory, and Ryan, Sitting at Ted's funeral yesterday I have never been so overcome with both sorrow and gratitude. I am so thankful to be part of the Cole Family. I am so lucky that Ted created a place where our family could meet every summer and develop relationships that go far beyond blood. My generation of Coles/Spencers/Solishes/Bragers/Golds are more than just relatives. We are genuine friends and that would not have happened without Ted and without Walden. I do not know many other families who have ever been given such a gift and I am so thankful.
Jen Arron August 22, 2008 08:48 AM
Cory, you're words yesterday were exactly perfect and revealed directly from your heart. Walden has truly changed the shape of my life. I am filled with so much gratitude for having so known many Walden summers and for having Ted & Elaine be such influential role models. Ted's bear hugs were larger than life. My most recent memory of Ted & Elaine was a couple years ago at a cocktail party I was photographing. Through my lens I saw Ted & Elaine and immediately felt warmth. Ted gave me a hug and for some reason, I couldn't let go. I had started to cry just by being brought back to that place in my mind - where on a cool summer night, Ted was there for a hug and some comfort. He looked at me with his all-knowing smile, tears welling up in my eyes, and said "it's ok Jen, it's ok". Elaine, Cory, and Ryan, my heart is open to you during this heavy time. xo Jen
Dale Ginsler August 22, 2008 08:47 AM
Many years ago while I was in University, my parents asked me why I wasn't dating any of the boys at U of T that I knew. When I told them that I didn't want to date men that wore more jewellery than me, they suggested that I work at a summer camp where I might meet someone more to my liking. After my interview with Ted, where I'm pretty sure he belched only once, I went to Walden, met Sandy (a.k.a, Muzz), and the rest is history. Thank you Ted.
Marcie Gordon August 22, 2008 08:45 AM
Ted gave so much to so many. He touched many lives, including mine. He was a prominent figure at White Pine. His leadership both artistically and personally was heartfelt. What a wonderful man! I will miss him.
William Flatt August 22, 2008 08:40 AM
Dear Bruce and Shayla: There are few things in life that are more rewarding than to touch the life of a child for the better. Through his dedication to his children's camp for those many years Ted played a integral role in the nurture of so many young and impressionable minds. I remember so well those few years that we privileged to have your family as neighbours on Ava Road. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Linda Goldsman August 22, 2008 08:40 AM
It has been a lifetime since I was in Ted's company when he started his directing career at Camp Arrowhead. I think it was 40 years ago that I was a c.i.t. under Ted's supervision. My fondest memory of that camp summer was going on a c.i.t. only trip to Algonquin Park with Richard Kauffman (as venerable leader), Richard Posluns, Wendy Posluns, Michelle Kauffman, Jeff Goldenberg and Lenny Kochberg. The weather was not very obliging -- rain thick with mosquitoes and the tents leaked. But we had fun in our misery. Richard K. couldn't take it anymore and canoed back to the portage store wearing his mosquito helmet, to phone Ted to beg him to pick up. Ted was not happy to drive 3 or 4 hrs. to get us after only a day in the wild, but Richard implored him and Ted obliged. Not totally committed to the wild, Richard traded in the canoe for a motor boat and retrieved us all. Some of us motored and the rest got towed in their canoe, as I recall. I remember feeling like a baby in a wet diaper, greeting Ted in my only dry clothes -- flannel pj's and an outside in plaid slicker (because the inside was soaked). He was dismayed and we were embarrassed as the sun had come out an hour earlier, and it was the most glorious day ever. Even though my memories of Ted are distant, I have thought of him on occasion and recall his funny jutting beard and how I thought he looked like Abe Lincoln. To Elaine and family, I express my sincerest sympathies. If I remember Ted so vividly after one summer, I can assure you that he will never be forgotten by most that he encountered.
Connie Lockwood August 22, 2008 02:43 AM
Dear Elaine and family In offering my condolences as you mourn the passing of Ted, my heart and thoughts go out to each of you. I am deeply saddened. Ted was such an amazing man! We don't meet many people in our lives who have such a profound personal affect on so many, as Ted had. From his big warm hugs and greeting smiles to his enthusiastic sharing of his numerous interests, passions and musical talents, he always made me feel that I belonged in that special place too. I am grateful for the experiences and time we shared over so many years both at Arts Camps and Camp Walden. The memories of those enjoyable times combined with listening to his CD bring me much comfort. "No love, no friendship, can cross the path of destiny without leaving some mark on it forever" (~Francois Mocuriac) Ted Cole 's marks will form a legacy which will be honoured for many more generations. Thank you Ted, You will be missed but I will "pass the music on . . ." and enjoy what "the seasons" bring. Thank you Elaine, Ryan and Cory for sharing Ted and yourselves. You are a wonderful family. With much love , Connie
Brent Rose August 22, 2008 12:48 AM
Dear Elaine and Family, I am so saddened for your loss. Ted's vision in establishing that special place, Camp Walden, gave me so many opportunities to make friendships that I cherish to this day. So many wonderful memories in just a few summers, both in camp (who can forget a night with Doug Henning, watching King Kong projected on a sheet screen under a starry sky outside on the main field, taking part in "mud scrabble", the sing-along’s led by Ted on guitar or banjo, the all-night campfires) and out of camp (Saratoga Springs, the Bancroft Gemboree, staff town night at the White House in Renfrew, and especially the canoe trips that took us down the rapids of the Madawaska River, to see the beauty of the Shangri-la waterfall on the Sturgeon River, deep into Temagami to camp high upon the twinkling iron pyrite cliffs of Wolf Lake, the blue waters of the Lady Evelyn River and from end to end in Algonquin Park), all compliments of Ted and his enduring vision to provide the most unique of camp experiences in the most beautiful of settings. I will miss him and doubtless never forget him.
Adam Hirsh August 22, 2008 12:38 AM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory. I am deeply sorry for your loss. Ted had a profound and lasting impact on my life, and I feel privileged to have so many wonderful memories of him. One of my fondest is from my wedding last September, where Ted and Elaine posed for a photograph with me and all the Walden alumni in attendance. I think there were something like 40 or 50 people in the picture, spanning several generations at camp - from my dad, a CIT of the early 1970s, to my brother, a CIT of the early 2000s. As that photograph shows, Walden has been, and always will be, at very the core of my life, a thread that ties together so many of my closest relationships. Thank you Ted, I will really miss you.
Adeel Ahmad August 21, 2008 11:33 PM
Ted was such an amazing, humorous, open man with more depth than I was able to comprehend when I met him at the age of 19. He was such a celebrity to me and countless others but was also so cool that he could totally hang out with any group. I played basketball with him, hearts, went to him for advice or just to try out a joke and he always joked right back. He even teased me mercilessly at times - which back then I didn't appreciate but for which I now am not only appreciative but honoured. He was so real. He was full of love, warmth, acceptance, kindness, generosity and I hope I can be like him. Rest in peace Ted.
Barry Mutrie, Madawaska Volleyball August 21, 2008 11:16 PM
I have just arrived home in Chesley from Ted's funeral. The scope and depth of Ted's impact on people was readily evident at the service. Recently, I had received an e-mail from Ian Eibbitt, Madawaska Camp Director which indicated that Ted would not be at camp to "hootenanny" one more time. I want to emphasize how much those unique evenings filled with enthusiastic singing meant to me personally and to the spirit of Madawaska Volleyball. We can attempt to fill Ted's "slot" but we can never replace the spirit of that evening. As I drove home, I had time to I look back with fondness at my time with Ted at "swamp" or our "marathon" tennis matches or Ted as a Walden Casino dealer or Ted as a competitive minnow racer or Ted and I sitting watching volleyball on the field of dreams on a late August evening. I never had it so good! Thanks Ted!
Jill Farber August 21, 2008 10:40 PM
Elaine, Cory and Ryan I am so sorry for your loss. Elaine and Ted were like summer parents as I grew up at camp, Ted was always available for a bear hug and Elaine was always there to say a special good night - thanks for that. Ted inspired me to be confident, to love and cherish friends, and to enjoy life. I will always treasure my time spent at Walden, they were the best days of my life! I will miss you Ted, thanks for all the memories - little Farbs
Miriam Silverberg August 21, 2008 09:47 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, I cannot express how saddened I was to hear of Ted's passing. Since Tuesday I have spent much time remembering my many summers at Walden. My memories are as strong now as they were then. The wonderful camp that you and Ted created has had a profound positive influence on so many people, myself included. My heartfelt sympathies are with you at this time.
Barry and Rita Craig August 21, 2008 09:35 PM
Dear Bruce and all your family: Regretfully, we weren't lucky enough to have met and known your brother Ted, but clearly, from the eulogies so wonderfully expressed and heard at Holy Blossom, he was a wonderful man to all who did know him. We extend our heartfelt sympathy on your loss and wish all of the mourners good health and long life. Rita and Barry Craig
Allen Hirsh (Celia, Adam, Pearl, Jamie) August 21, 2008 09:29 PM
I can't believe he's gone. Ted enriched our family and lives in so many ways. My heart is heavy. I will deeply miss my good friend.
Gillian Newman August 21, 2008 09:26 PM
When my mom came in to my room and told me that Ted passed away my heart broke into a million pieces and before I knew it my face was all wet from crying. I knew that it is my job to carry on, as hard as it may be some times, but that Ted would want me to have fun and hang out with my friends. Ted was all about having fun and enjoying life to its fullest. Ted was very special to me and my family. Ted was a role model and an uncle who was there to guide me. I remember all the fun times we shared at the house playing drums together. My fond memories of our time together will stay in my mind forever. I will never forget you Ted. I wish that we could play the drums together one more time. love you always!
Samantha Bader August 21, 2008 08:44 PM
Elaine, Cory and Ryan. I was sincerely touched by Cory's words today and I thank him and Ryan for sharing their Dad with us those summers at camp. Even though I only spent 2 summers at Walden, I will never forget them, nor the kind and spirited man that Ted was. He had the ability to make every kid at camp feel special. My deepest condolences.
The Tanzer's August 21, 2008 07:32 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, Our connection with Walden had an auspicious start - Dr. Alan B. hurt his back and "we" were lucky enough to be called to fill in for a weekend as the camp "Doc". That weekend gave us entree back into the "magical world of camp" for many summers to follow and allowed us to pretend for a few precious weeks to be 16 again. Our kids Jamie, Brian and Michael came with, stayed on as campers and even after we moved to California we all came back for many years both as campers and staff. Since we heard of Ted's passing we have been listening to his "Pass It On" CD, singing along, remembering "Ted-isms", crying and laughing. Hearing his voice lets us feel his magical spirit in a good and powerful way - and be forever young. On rare occasions I have had the privilege to meet someone who has altered my perceptions of the world and my place in it. Ted and Elaine you are such people. You have modeled for us to have drams and to embrace life in a manner that is consistent with those dreams by living every moment passionately, responsibly, wisely and lovingly. Thank you for sharing your dream with us and allowing us to share ourselves with you. And mostly, thank you Ted for allowing us to sing your songs........ With love, Laraine, Teddy, Jamie, Brian and Michael
Danny Foreht August 21, 2008 06:20 PM
Dear Elaine and Cole Family; I would like to offer my sympathy and condolences in this time of sorrow.. Ted was a big part of my childhood.... I learned so much in the summers I spent at Walden it's hard to put into words.... We are all better people from knowing him....
Stephen Ross August 21, 2008 05:30 PM
Dear Elaine and Cole Family: I was so saddened to hear of your loss and my heart goes out to the family and everyone who knew Ted. I knew Ted for over 40 years and in each day that passed, there was always that wonderful memory hidden somewhere within me remembering his inspiration, charm, friendship and good advice. I will be forever grateful for the times he gave us at Camp Arrowhead and Camp Walden. I will always cherish those times and hold them dear to my heart.
Robin Frilegh-Rudman August 21, 2008 05:21 PM
Elaine, Corey and Ryan. I don’t know anyone in the camping community that was so loved or touched so many hearts. I remember being a waldeneer the second year it opened. Ted had us all in mud puddles chasing greased up pigs and patting cougars and boa constrictors. I recall vividly one of my most memorable experiences white water rafting with Ted down the Ottawa River. My days off with Ted taking the staff to the local bar for "Moose Kicks" . But most of all Ted was a mentor for so many. The most down to earth real person you could meet. Years later I had the privilege of returning as a counsellor and Ted we passed the music on because my children are now Waldeneers as well. You will be missed by all in the community whose lives you impacted. Strange how you waited til camp was over to say goodbye.
Anna Grosman August 21, 2008 05:20 PM
Dear Elaine, Jesse, Marc, Cory and their parents Anna and Norm Grosman extend their warmest and most sincere condolences. Ted (and you too, Elaine) was instrumental in forming the souls and social beings of our three boys. Their years at Walden as both campers and staff were unforgettable and unique. Ted and Elaine played a huge part in Walden's success. While Camp Walden continued to thrive, it wasn't the same after Ted and Elaine sold the camp. You were missed then and you are even more missed now. Ted will never be forgotten, Love and warm hugs from all the Grosmans
Alana Reitapple Blitstein and Family August 21, 2008 05:20 PM
For years I have been drawn to the following quote of Henry David Thoreau: "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Life the life you've imagined." But I never really put it together with how I saw Ted until the other day when I realized that he lived his life just that way. Looking back, I remember how passionate he was about what he did with his life - from Walden, to music, and especially his family. Ted was always real. True to himself. True to others. Inspiring. Ted had such a positive impact on so many lives - mine only one of them. And I will always remember the life lessons I learned from my beautiful and treasured summers at Camp Walden; and from Ted and Elaine and their family. Ted, I smile every time I think of you. You will live on in my heart and memory always. My love and hugs to you all.
Gary Wener August 21, 2008 05:20 PM
To the Cole Family, My deepest sympathy to you all. I was a camper at Walden in the first couple of years of the camp. That experience and Ted's extraordinary leadership was and is an inspiration to me. I was truly affected when I heard the news. I wish you all peace.
Karen and Ernie Rubenstein and family August 21, 2008 04:47 PM
Accepting the loss of someone you love is the most difficult path that we must all walk. We struggle with the finality, the reality of what has occurred. We are never really finished with the mourning of those that we have loved. But Ted was certainly not a sad person and we are sure that he would not want us to dwell at great length on sadness for him. He would rather that we celebrate what we have had. He enriched so many lives with his presence. For that, we will all continue to love and respect him. And so, Ted, knowing that you are now watching over all of us, beyond the ache that tell us how much we will miss you, a deeper thought compels. We were friends together for soooo many years. We hold you still in our minds and give thanks for your life and love. The happiness that was and the memories that will not fade are a gift that cannot nor will not be lost. You will continue to bless our days and years to come. All of those who knew you will forever give thanks for that. May your beloved Elaine, your sons and all of your family and friends have the resolve to endure this very difficult time, but also take comfort in your memory, love and strength. Farewell dear friend.
Mark Frankel August 21, 2008 03:24 PM
Ted was my section head at Tamarack in 1962. I was a 12 year-old "cub"... May his memory be for a blessing!
Amy (Brodkin) Greenberg August 21, 2008 03:20 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory I wish that I had the words that could accurately express how I am feeling. Cory, you said it beautifully today, "you shared him with us" for all of those summers. He shared himself with all of us. He was the most "real" person that I have ever met in my life. He was passionate and caring and so very fun to be around. He did everything in his power to open our eyes to what a perfect time in our life those summers were. My most cherished memories and friendships were made because of Ted's dream. Ted, I loved you deeply. Thank you for the best times of my life.
Lisa Granatstein August 21, 2008 03:11 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, from New York my heart reaches out to you. I am so saddened by your family's loss. I am so grateful to have spent many special years at camp and Ted's influence on my life continues to this day. Ted gave me the gift of music, starting when we first met in 1978. He plucked about 100 albums off your cabin's shelves—everything from Dylan and Donovan to Joan Baez and Joni Mitchell—and told me to listen to them all. And I did. Now I've come full circle and am sharing camp songs with my son. My memory of Ted will always be of him standing on the stage in Omni, playing his banjo, and wearing a Walden t-shirt and a big grin. Much love, Lisa
Randi Cogan-Shinder August 21, 2008 02:36 PM
My deepest sympathies to Elaine, Ryan, Cory and their families. I had a recent email exchange with Ted and we planned to re-connect this Fall. I am so sorry that we did not have that opportunity. My memories of Walden are some of my most cherished and my camp friendships are still a very meaningful part of my life. My children now attend Walden and we as a family are now "captured in the spell of Walden's beauty" and although they will never participate in a Ted Cole sing song, we play the CD and I try my best to "pass the music on". The funeral service and eulogies today were very moving and the legacy that Ted leaves behind is simply incredible. Randi Cogan-Shinder
Jeff Friedman August 21, 2008 02:13 PM
Greatest memories of my life. Thanks Ted...I will miss you. Frieds
Rachel Wolfson August 21, 2008 02:11 PM
From sitting in canoes for a Blue Moon in the middle of the camp lake, to lying with our eyes closed on the floor of the Half-Way House for an unplugged Cole-In-Concert, to being a CIT of ’99 who was privileged with the opportunity to sing in the background of the Camp Walden CD - By The Campfire (disk two)...my memories of Ted are precious and beyond measure. In my 10 Year Book Ted wrote “We have watched you develop from a child into a beautiful young woman and we are privileged to have been a part of that”. Elaine, I am honoured that you and Ted have been a part of that.
Mark Tishman August 21, 2008 01:52 PM
I was a camper at Walden for 8 years and had the time of my life there. Ted always had kind words and treated me and everyone who was there like family. His sing songs are still some of my fondest memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dina Torrans August 21, 2008 01:24 PM
Ted could really make me laugh... and, come to think of it, cry... like a baby (oh the seasons....). He played a very inspirational role in my life, as he did in the lives of so many others. I will always be grateful that I was able to spend some of my greatest summer's working for Ted and Elaine in the beautiful surroundings that they created together and called Walden. It truly felt like a second home to me and I made some of my life's best friends while there. I learned so much about myself and feel that I was given an opportunity to develop many of my talents in that very special place. It was my honour to share the stage with Ted several times and to sing with him. It has been a gift to be a part of the Walden family. Elaine, so many people have been deeply and forever inspired by the powerful legacy that you both created. What a blessing. Thank you.
Aruna Ogale August 21, 2008 01:17 PM
Dear Elaine: I only had an opportunity to meet Ted a few times, but I will always treasure and remember the personal tour he gave me of Camp Walden. The legacy he has left behind and the devotion he has shown to the OCA is much appreciated and remembered by all. I am proud to be part of an organization once led by Ted Cole.
Lauren, Jenna, & Max Laskin August 21, 2008 12:54 PM
Ted was the great patriarch of a family of thousands. We are so grateful to have been a part of that very special family. Ted will be sorely missed but our wonderful memories of him and of our summers at Walden will stay with us forever. All our love.
Cindy Vogel August 21, 2008 12:27 PM
Walden was my sanctuary, Ted it's impeccable leader. Thank you. My deepest sympathies to Ted's family. Cindy Vogel
David Rosen August 21, 2008 12:23 PM
Ted arrived at Camp White Pine when I was 15 years old, with his 12 string guitar and banjo. He completely mesmerized us all with his passion and dedication for music and life, inspiring so many to a greater understanding. During my one year at Walden, he gave me much needed support and direction which I will never forget. My condolences to his family. Your loss is shared by generations of campers and friends.
Lianne Vineberg August 21, 2008 12:09 PM
My deepest sympathies on the loss of one of the most incredible men I have every had the pleasure of knowing. It’s been almost 20 years since I last attended camp with Ted but the memories of Ted and his banjo are still strong. May the wonderful memories your family and the entire community have help you through this terrible time. He will be very missed.
Johanna Samuel August 21, 2008 11:57 AM
Dear Elaine, Ryan, Cory and family, I am so shattered by the news of Ted. Heartbroken. For days, knowing how ill Ted was, through the tears, I thought back to the years at Camp Arrowhead- with you, Elaine-as my beloved counsellor and Ted- this amazing person who then came into my parents home with his slide projector and introduced us to his dream of Walden. I was transported by him and knew immediately that this man and that moment would change my life forever...and he did. Ted was my magical, musical mentor. He was my emotional ally and support during the rough spots of adolescence and he helped me to see myself and to blossom. He was like a surrogate father to me and to countless others who were privileged to share in his life. His passion for politics, folk music, nature, beauty was infectious. It is impossible to grasp the loss of Ted Cole- someone whose soul is part of so many of us. So many memories- so much humour-that voice, the poetry, the music, the summers and winters at Walden, the intimate campfires and darkly lit concerts he gave, the deep conversations on long wooded walks through camp...as he guided and accompanied so many of us into adulthood. I will miss Ted and he will be in my heart all my life. Love, Johanna
Lindsay Rudman August 21, 2008 11:45 AM
The seven summers I have spent at Walden have significantly shaped and changed me as a person. The countless memories created there will be with me forever and the friends I have made will last a lifetime. Walden is more than a camp, for me it is a second home and Ted and Elaine were the parents. I feel honoured to have known Ted as he was a caring, loving, and compassionate soul, his sing-songs would be the highlight of my summers as they would start and end the summer with great amounts of energy and showed me what camp is truly all about. Ted's values of music, nature, and life in general will be passed on for generations to come. Thank you, Ted. My deepest sympathy to Elaine, Cory, Ryan, and the entire Cole family.
Ray Zilberberg August 21, 2008 11:40 AM
I was so deeply saddened when I heard the news. Ted had such a huge impact on all our lives. He and Elaine have given me so many cherished memories of my nine summers at Walden, from sing alongs, to the Walden Games, to burning W's, to impromptu bus trips to McDonalds, to hearing what he thought of our camp plays. Ted you will be dearly missed. My heart and thoughts go out to the family.
Mira Zunder August 21, 2008 11:12 AM
Walden is home. Ted's dream was its essence and the dream lives on in the thousands of people privileged to have been part of its magic. The sadness we all feel today is a testament to the power of Ted's passion for all of it: the nature, the friendship, the trust, and of course, the music. We all will miss his energy and enthusiasm and feel a sense of duty to pass it on. Like no other place, Walden makes us feel safe, comfortable in our own skin, and accepted for who we are. The values he instilled in all his staff and campers will be lived and passed on for generations to come. Ted's legacy truly cannot be measured; the memory of his voice - musical and philosophical - will stay with us forever. Please accept our sincere condolences. With love and gratitude, Mira Zunder and family.
Eric Kimmel August 21, 2008 10:25 AM
Since the news broke of Ted's passing, I can't tell you how many e-mails I've received, threads that have been started with so many different groups of people that were all at Walden - in both Montreal and Toronto. Everyone connecting and re-connecting, emotional and sentimental, remembering and reliving the magical place that was Walden and the unique person that was Ted and his creation. How many people have said that they have been listening to the Walden CD over and over again in some attempt to honour Ted, Walden and "recapture the spell of Walden's beauty"? Walden was the place that we all blossomed and is part of who we are today. As I read the sincere notes that came before me from many of my campers, counsellors, and friends, I pray that that they offer you some measure of , not only relief, but joy for the life that Ted lived and the impact that he and Walden had on literally thousands of people. What a testament to a life we could all only hope to aspire to. I'm so sorry that I couldn't make it to Toronto for the funeral but I haven't stopped thinking of you guys, the phenomenal memories, and the greatest times of my life.
August 21, 2008 10:21 AM
Since the news broke of Ted's passing, I can't tell you how many e-mails I've received, threads that have been started with so many different groups of people that were all at Walden - in both Montreal and Toronto. Everyone connecting and re-connecting, emotional and sentimental, remembering and reliving the magical place that was Walden and the unique person that was Ted and his creation. How many people have said that they have been listening to the Walden CD over and over again in some attempt to honour Ted, Walden and "recapture the spell of Walden's beauty"? Walden was the place that we all blossomed and is part of who we are today. As I read the sincere notes that came before me from many of my campers, counsellors, and friends, I pray that that they offer you some measure of , not only relief, but joy for the life that Ted lived and the impact that he and Walden had on literally thousands of people. What a testament to a life we could all only hope to aspire to. I'm so sorry that I couldn't make it to Toronto for the funeral but I haven't stopped thinking of you guys, the phenomenal memories, and the greatest times of my life.
Eric Petersiel August 21, 2008 09:18 AM
Dear Elaine, Cory and Ryan, I can't tell you how sad I have been hearing of Ted's passing. Reading through these notes helps me understand how others felt about him, and I truly believe that Ted Cole influenced my direction in life without ever having to preach his mission. The camp he created and the love he exuded there made us feel more self-confident and more self-aware, safe to explore who we were and who we wished to become. I see many notes about the music, and for me it was the magic of "Visions of Johanna" during Cole in Concert 1987. When I gained the confidence finally to perform one show live in March 1993 in Montreal, I considered that song in Ted's honour, but instead chose "The Lonesome Death of Hattie Carroll." The mesmerising experience of getting through a long narrative tale in music from start to finish and taking the audience with me along the way made me think of Ted and how effortlessly he had done this for so many years. I wrote a long letter to Ted then explaining how indebted I felt to him for who he was. As a professional educator now I feel even more indebted to him, as I view my role in life as modeling for others what they may love and cherish as they grow into themselves. Given the responses below, it is clear that Ted managed to do that in spades. How much better a role model could there be.
Mel and Judi Goldberg August 21, 2008 09:08 AM
Elaine and family Ted and I go back a long time to the days at Camp Tamarack where for years he was cubmaster and I was scoutmaster. That first summer with him convinced me to buy my first banjo. I recall with fond memory the endless nights in the counsellor's lounge where we had our hout an'annies with most of the camp staff. After meal singsongs became a way of life. Even recently he continued to influence me and this led to a purchase of a long necked Seeger banjo which I have resumed playing. Those years at Tamarack with those associations are ever embossed in my memory. At that time four of us started an investment club that never came to fruition - TAMM Investments. Ted Cole, Alan Borden, Malcolm Marcus and myself. A special relationship between 4 friends at summer camp. Relationships that were of great value to Ted which he was eager to instil into his future campers at Camp Walden. We kept in touch remotely over the ensuing years and recently I looked forward to renewing our relationship having just retired and returning to Toronto. Unfortunately it was not to be. Something I deeply regret. He has touched many over the years and his departure will be felt by all. Judi and I offer our sympathy and condolences. Our thoughts are with you and your wonderful family.
Leah ( Fogel ) Kalish August 21, 2008 09:03 AM
Ted had that beautiful combination of big little kid and man of wisdom. He taught so many of us how the outdoors and music and friendship immeasurably enrich our lives. And although my children did not know Ted, I believe they too will be rocking their own babies to sleep while singing "Circle Game". Emma, how fortunate you are to read all this wonderful stuff about your grandfather. He was indeed an incredible man. My love to the family.
LINDA AND MOISHE GROSSINGER August 21, 2008 08:46 AM
ELAINE AND FAMILY OUR THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME AND WE WANT YOU TO KNOW HOW SORRY WE ARE ABOUT THE PASSING OF TED. WE ONLY KNEW HIM FOR A SHORT TIME BUT WE KNEW HOW MUCH OUR CHILDREN HOWIE AND SARI RESPECTED HIM AND LOVED HIM. PLEASE EXCEPT OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY. LINDA AND MOISHE GROSSINGER
maxwell baylin August 21, 2008 01:58 AM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory. It stopped me in my tracks to hear of Ted's passing. It seems only yesterday that we would be sitting in august, the last night of camp, as Ted sang out to campers of all ages closing another year of camp. The W showing us the way back home...to Walden. I have to say when I first met Ted I was intimidated by the beard and the voice...perhaps because I was getting into trouble. However that soon passed and camp for me was the most exciting time of the year. I grew up at Walden as did many friends. I would not be the person I am today without Walden and Ted's passion to create a place like it. I am sad for your loss. And Ted, I'm proud to say after all these years I've managed to learn to clean my bunk.
Peter Tureck August 21, 2008 01:27 AM
Dear Elaine and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Ted meant a lot to me and I know I'll never forget him as long as I live.
Jodi Panzer August 21, 2008 12:38 AM
Elaine, Ryan and Cory, my deepest thoughts are with you during this difficult time. It took just one summer as a color camper, to fall in love with Walden, and bring me back for 12 more. These summers provided me with so much, which I will be forever grateful. I have countless memories and amazing stories with Ted. To this day, my closest friends and I still look through our albums, and reminisce about Walden. How lucky we were. How much we laughed. The emotions that were always felt on that last night of camp, combined with the sound of Ted’s voice and the tune of his banjo, truly capture the meaningfulness of a summer at Walden. Words cannot express how important Walden has been to me. Ted, thank you.
Jack (Jacky) Feldman August 21, 2008 12:23 AM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory. There are no words to describe the sadness I feel at Ted's passing. He was a friend, a colleague, a mentor and one of the most influential role models in my life. My prayers, my thoughts and my heartfelt sympathies are with you. May his memory always and forever be a blessing.
Shawn and Aliza Pulver August 21, 2008 12:15 AM
Elaine, Cory and Ryan, TED Cole was a dreamer, a visionary, and, most importantly, a friend. I remember after finishing my 15th and last summer at Walden, I sat down and wrote a letter to TED and Elaine thanking them for all they had done for me and the thousands of other campers and staff over the past 40 years. The main thing that I remember stressing in that letter was the passion that TED and Elaine always showed in everything that they did. Passion, in a way, is the best word to describe TED. For TED, there was never a good song, or a decent meal, it was always “the most powerful song ever written,” or the “best hamburger…..ever.” TED didn’t like music, he was passionate about it. He didn’t just own CD’s or records, he passionately collected them, in the thousands. While TED loved to sing songs, he always tried to teach campers and staff the significance and background of the songs themselves. When I received the horrible news, the only thing that seemed to temporarily comfort me was to go back and listen to the Walden CD. The song that I kept going back to was “You don’t know what you’ve got, until you lose it.” I kept thinking back to all of those summers where TED would tell the staff that you don’t stay young forever, and to enjoy your time at camp. “Europe, as TED would always say, “Is not going anywhere.” While I know that TED still had many more songs to sing, I will always know in my heart that if there was ever one person who truly knew what he had in this world when he was with us, it was Ted, the man who was, and will always be, forever young. With Love, Shawn and Aliza Pulver
Cabin Yellow 1997... August 20, 2008 11:50 PM
Eight of us started out in cabin yellow in the summer of ’97. Since then, 7 of the original 8 have each spent 10 or more summers there. For us, Walden was more than a summer camp, it was a second home. It was there that we giggled over first crushes, cried over cabin dramas and, later, made our most treasured memories to smile over. Without a doubt, each of us can stand on any spot in camp, and tell you a story. Just as Walden wasn’t just a summer retreat, the Cole family was so much more than just camp directors. Each year, our camp-wide sing-alongs with Ted started off our summers and drew them to a close, with Ted’s songs seeming to say everything we never could about what Walden and the people there meant to us. We don’t just carry Walden and the Cole family in our memories, but in our everlasting friendships and, most importantly, always in our hearts. Walden will forever be in our dreams. Elaine , Cory , Ryan and family our deepest sympathies are with you during this difficult time. A big hug and so many thanks for the laughter and smiles. Cabin Yellow '97 - Marni Blustein , Marlee Felberbaum , Sophie Moher & Sara Finkelstein
Stephen Epstein (aka..schmeppy) August 20, 2008 11:40 PM
My memories of Ted go back to 1975 when I was a stranger in a new place. Ted made me feel at home within in minutes and from that instant both Ted and Walden became very familiar ground. Through the last 34 years that relationship continued to grow and Ted and Elaine both grew to become part of our family. Not a single rainy day goes by every summer where I cannot stop myself about thinking of Ted and his banjo and our famous sing-a_longs.Ted will forever be in our hearts and I consider myself a better man for having known him. Elaine, Ryan, and Cory my heavy heart is with you and I wish you strength and courage in this most difficult of times. We are all the better for having had Ted in our lives.
Liane Rashkovan Eliesen and Family August 20, 2008 11:05 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory It has been many years since I was a camper at Camp Walden; fortunately for me I have been able to share the Walden spirit with my children who continue to spend their summers up at camp We have all been blessed to experience a part of the dream that Ted has shared with so many. Walden is truly a beautiful place that would never be the same without Ted’s inspiration. He built a camp which many will always feel is home. Through him many books of memories can be filled. We will always remember him as the loving caring man that he was. He will truly be missed. Thank you for sharing this special man with us and may you take console in knowing that we are grieving with you.
Julie Feldman August 20, 2008 10:53 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, I received the news of Ted's passing yesterday while I was out with my sons. The news stopped me in my tracks. I must have looked odd because my son asked me what was wrong. I told him that a wonderful man from my childhood had passed away. I began to think back to my time at Walden. I went to Walden from the time I was 10 until my early 20s. It was a special place and Ted and Elaine were special people. Our experiences growing up shape us and make us who we are as adults. I owe a lot to Ted and Elaine for making my camp experience so meaningful. Ted and Elaine - thank you.
Lenny Panzer August 20, 2008 10:49 PM
Elaine Cory and Ryan, my thoughts and wishes are with you during this difficult time. Rarely does a day go by that I do not think of my 11 years at Camp Walden. For me, it will always be that special place, during a precious time of my life, where I experienced so much. I am so grateful for Ted Cole and that world he created every summer. I feel very lucky to have been a part of Walden and to have known Ted Cole both as a camper and an adult. Ted influenced me in so many ways throughout my years at Walden. But I always come back to the memory of one of my first evenings ever at camp. I was 11 years old, and we had a sing song at Ted's Firepit. At some point, Ted told us to just stare into the fire, forget the people around you, listen to the sounds of the wilderness and lose yourself in your thoughts. To this day, every time I see a campfire of some sort, I am briefly transported back to that moment, as a younger Zodiac with Ted and his banjo- and I smile. Thank you Ted.
Shelby Kroach August 20, 2008 10:21 PM
I was so fortunate to have shared so many wonderful memories with Ted. I will never forget our paddles around the lake during swim marathons. We shared a special bond and Ted was a true inspiration to me. His wonderful spirit and radiant personality will be greatly missed. He will be in my heart forever.
Jamie Satin August 20, 2008 09:28 PM
Ted was, of course, one of a kind with that special something. Genuine, warm, upbeat. The rare ability to make everyone he met feel special. A snicker, a wink, a pat on the back. That was all it took. He made a lasting impression on my heart. Ted's is a life worth celebrating. Elaine, Ryan and Cory - my thoughts are with you at this most difficult time.
Kathryn Balter August 20, 2008 09:11 PM
My deepest condolences go out to Elaine and the rest of the Cole family. I am forever grateful to Ted for providing me with a second home that I could return to each and every summer for the past 12 years. Anyone who has spent time at Walden is aware of its beauty, but the values that Ted instilled in each person there can never be expressed in words. I will love and cherish the music and memories that Ted introduced to me as a child at Walden for my entire life. Ted will be greatly missed but his legacy will live on in everyone who shared in his love for nature, beauty, and music. Thank you for everything.
Mickey Ruben-Pitch August 20, 2008 09:09 PM
Dear Bruce I was so sorry to hear about your brother Ted. When we drove up to the pre-camp Kawagama reunion, you spoke so proudly of him and that you would be seeing him that week-end at the cottage. Please accept my condolences.
Sarah Newman August 20, 2008 08:37 PM
Ted Cole was one of the most amazing, and inspiring people I have ever known. Not only was he an amazing role model for everyone he met, he was like a father to every camper and staff who went to camp Walden. Ted's vision of Walden will always be remembered in my heart and mind as a place of friendships, love and the most amazing 7 summers I have ever had, from the age of 7 to the present my fondest memories have been at camp. My family and I will miss ted so very much, and our hearts broke when we heard of his passing, I have loved ted not only as a the owner of a camp that everyone knows and loves, but also as a person and as an uncle. We have had so many special memories together at camp and in the city and none will be forgotten. Ted, I love you so much, and your memory will never be forgotten, so in your honour not only I, but everyone who knew you, will "pass the music on". Thanks you for everything.
Heidi Barkun August 20, 2008 08:23 PM
Elaine, Ryan and Cory, What words can I say to express my profound sadness? As the years roll by, my thoughts and memories of camp have become more that much more dear. Walden was an Eden, and Ted's dream brought joy, laughter, and a true sense of belonging to this wide-eyed kid. He was every child's father, mentor and friend, and I will remain forever grateful for my summer's spent as part of your family. My sincerest condolences during this very difficult time. With love, Heidi
ORF (Jeff Offman) August 20, 2008 08:20 PM
Dear Elaine Cory and Ryan. In 1971,I came up to Walden with My Bubbie and Zaidy to Visit My aunt Pam (first year Color Staff) I had just come from a real bad overnight at a day camp. No way I’m going to a sleep over camp BUT!!! My Aunt Introduced me to this wild guy in wild shorts with glasses and a big black beard. He started to show us around and within a minute I knew I wanted to go to Walden. I didn't want to leave that day. From that minute Ted incredibly turned that minute into 12 incredible summers filled with tones of life long memories including playing on the piano with Ted playing guitar making it sound so awesome.(Still playing TED's influential tunes today) basically TED curved my life in a very positive way. My thoughts and prayers go out to you wonderful, wonderful people for your sad sad loss. I love that guy!!!!! Jeff Offman
Michael and Karen Sanders August 20, 2008 08:20 PM
I first met Ted when we were on the track and field team at Forest Hill Jr. High. This association continued on the track team at FHCI where Ted was a runner. We also shared the same Confirmation class at Holy Blossom Temple in 1957. He was spirited then as he was for the remainder of his wonderful life. We met again at Temple Emanu-El where it was always a pleasure to reminisce about old times. Of course it was only natural many years later that we sent our Jon and Julie to Walden where they had the times of their lives. We send our sincerest condolences to Elaine, Ryan, Cory and families. Michael and Karen
August 20, 2008 08:07 PM
Growing up, camp was a place where I could learn, develop and grow. Walden is a place where I made some of my best friends and it also gave me some of my greatest memories. If it were not for Walden I don't know what I would do with myself during the summer. Ted and Elaine you gave me the best summers of my life and for that I thank you deeply.
June Vaile August 20, 2008 08:01 PM
"Thanks Ted for providing my children with the most wonderful memories....." I hope I said this before...I'm sure I did.....but...it is certainly worth repeating. Godspead, June Vaile
The Epstein/Franks family August 20, 2008 07:58 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Corey We love listening to his music, especially the "Garbage song", and we loved the sing-along when you guys came to the cottage. We listen to the Walden CD all the time! We hope you feel better and not sad. Love, Jeremie and Josh Franks
Phil and Helene Rudolph August 20, 2008 07:26 PM
Dear Elaine, We send you and your family our deepest sympathies. What a loss. The world is not as bright anymore. Phil and Helene Rudolph
Dawn B August 20, 2008 07:23 PM
The news of Ted's passing came as a shock to me earlier today. Though it has been a while, please know that my deepest thoughts, heartfelt condolences and prayers are with all of you during this most difficult time.
Lorbergs family August 20, 2008 07:07 PM
Thank YOU Ted and your family, for 25 years of 'heavenly bliss' at Camp Walden, a.k.a. Madawaska Volleyball Camp! The wonderful memories that we continue to share as a family, especially the annual HOOTENANY, are second to none. Personally, I was looking forward to being there for this year's rendition!! I'll be there! Thank you, the Cole family, for providing so many Volleyball enthusiasts, to learn about LIFE!
Robin (Farber) & Jeff Goldberg August 20, 2008 07:04 PM
Elaine, Ryan & Corey, Losing Ted feels similar to the end of camp. So sad that it is over, but so much richer, happier and full of joy because of the lifetime of experience each summer seemed to bring. Ted's memory, like the ones from camp are indelible and irreplaceable in our lives. We will miss him so much. Our love and thoughts are with you. Robin (Farber) & Jeff Goldberg
Paul & Carrie Habert (Friedman) August 20, 2008 07:03 PM
Elaine, Ryan and Cory. Our hearts are filled with sadness, but our heads are filled with spectacular memories. Ted helped to mould the people who we have come to be. The volume of entries in this memorial book are testament to how so many have been so profoundly touched by Ted and the creation of the Walden family. When we think of Ted the first thing that leaps to mind is the gift of his music. He nurtured our love for music and exposed us to new ideas and explained the revolutionary folk movement that he belonged to. The second memory is of him burping the alphabet while sitting on the Polaris! The last couple of days we have re-connected with many friends, shared dozens of camp stories, and have toasted an "original". We promise to pass the music on.... Habes & Frieds
Reesa Rotblott Nussbaum August 20, 2008 06:26 PM
Dear Elaine and Family, I'm so happy that I got to see Ted and yourself only a few months ago at Esti's wedding. My years at Walden I will hold on forever. Being the youngest camper when the camp opened, Ted was like a second father to me. I would cry every night and Ted would pick me up, go to his cabin and make hot chocolate and popcorn. Then Ted would take me to the hill and teach me all about the stars. When I would fall asleep Ted would throw me in the back of the station wagon and take me back to the Yellow cabin. This went on for the whole summer. The fond memories of the sing songs have lived with me all these years. I passed them on to the campers that I had at Arrowhead, Richmond Hill day camp, Bayview Glen and Banbury kids camp. Just thinking about the songs brings a smile to my face. I am so privileged for having the opportunity to have known such a wonderful man. Please accept my deepest condolences on your loss. Cherish the memories and be there for one another. Love Reesa
Max Zidel August 20, 2008 06:25 PM
Words cannot describe how much Ted means to me and my camping experience. I will miss him so much and I know that camp will miss him too but I know that all the wisdom, fun, excitement and meaning he brought to this world will never be forgotten and will forever be engraved in mine and so many others' memories. Ted left an incredible legacy that will continue to affect campers and staff for years to come. Even those that are new to camp will always feel Ted's presence in the beauty of the camp he built and cared for so many years.
Fredzia and Dow Marmur August 20, 2008 06:20 PM
Dear Ellen and Family, The Epsteins and Linda Wolfe told us of Ted's illness. The news came as a shock to us all. We are greatly distressed at the tragic outcome. This is just to say that you are with us in our thoughts and our prayers. May you find comfort in your memories and strength in your family. With kind thoughts and good wishes Fedzia and Dow
Silvia Sigal August 20, 2008 05:46 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan, Corey and family: Roby, Sergio, Arturo and myself have our thoughts and our hearts with you. Ted touched so many lives and was and always will be dearly loved and remembered, We are thinking of you all. Love, Silvia And Family.
Melissa Wronzberg August 20, 2008 05:02 PM
Learning of Ted's passing was very heartbreaking. Ted was an amazing person who touched mine and my whole families lives. His songs from the Walden singsongs are still in my head and they will never be forgotten and either will Ted. My sincere condolences go out to the Cole family. Ted will be greatly missed <3.
Shari Maltz August 20, 2008 05:02 PM
Our daughter heads to a performing arts high school this year due in large part to the influence of Ted Cole. I don't know if he ever heard her sing but when she sang "Let It Be" at the Sing Song at Camp this year she sang it loud and strong - for Ted. Ted's spirit lives in the music of Walden - he taught her, and so many kids, that music has the power to move and friendship the power to love. What an inspiration.
Lesley and Lorne Barsky August 20, 2008 04:55 PM
Since our teenage days at Forest Hill Collegiate, we can't picture Ted without a banjo or guitar. And of course, our Joanna's Walden summers have blessed her with wonderful memories and lifelong friends. Our deepest sympathy to Elaine and family on this terrible and untimely loss.
Michele Sobol August 20, 2008 04:54 PM
Dear Elaine, Cory and Ryan, our Canadian family: This is a mixed feeling moment for all of us, your Mexican family: full of sadness for the realization that we won´t see Ted again and full of joy because we know how privileged we were for being part of Ted´s circle of life, part of his dreamland, Walden, and part of the chain that will pass his music on. Even in this foreign country, Ted leaves a living legacy. When I think of Ted I think of love, trust, protection, fun and happiness. He was always there for us, a comforting , trusting, loving man. Through him, we built a bridge for Mexican families and Walden, he made camp a great place for Mexican kids to make new friends and grow. If you ask anyone here what they remember the most about camp, the answer is always the same: Ted´s beard, Ted´s belly and Ted´s songs. We love you , thanks for the great memories from the Walden family in Mexico. we will pass the music on....
Grant & Genée Fountain August 20, 2008 04:43 PM
Ryan, Janet, Elaine, Cory, We are so very sorry to hear of Ted's passing. We really only met Ted a few years ago at your wedding, Ryan & Janet, and up at the cottage. It seemed clear after meeting him and hearing stories from family and friends that he embraced life and lived it fully. I am awestruck at the outpouring of stories of people’s lives he touched and influenced. It's clear that he has made his mark and left a truly amazing legacy. Ryan, Janet, let us know if you or your family need anything at all.
Margot agami SOBOL August 20, 2008 04:39 PM
The news filled me with sadness. Everything going on around me turned to a confusing, dull mass. Soon, with the tears building up in my throat, the rough emotion took shape: images and sounds began to condense inside me... I last went to camp five years ago —Ted and Elaine’s last summer as owners— and I haven’t but missed it every summer since. So much has been going on in my life since I was sixteen and still every moment spent at Walden keeps coming back to me and drawing a smile on my face. I guess today I cry not of sadness, but of yearning... yearning of all Ted Cole was for me, my family, and all the people who knew him: a creator, a leader, the soul of a magical place; he, too, a magical soul. Ted found a way to bring people together not only through music, but trough song: the music that’s made collectively through a true, almost spiritual, communion. The warmth of campfire, the memory of it, is a feeling that never goes away. I last saw Ted when he came down to Mexico for my brother’s Bar Mitzvah —the Coles have been no less than family for a long time. My mom chose “All my life’s a circle” as the theme song of Jacob’s picture video... I will never forget Ted’s face as he heard himself sing... proud, loving, vulnerable. When I said goodbye, before he and Elaine left to the airport, I asked him what that song he sang at his wedding was, it was “The windmills of your mind”. I couldn’t but listen to it again today. I realized there was something about circles that fascinated Ted. Most of the songs that Ted sang at camp talk about the circular flow of time: encounters and goodbyes, the changing seasons, a song that repeats itself, life in all. Ted’s heart was a great circle, willing to grow so wide, to make room in it for everyone. He had eyes, music, and joy to share for almost 40 years at Walden. He leaves us now, at the end of summer, the season he though us to love and too long for all year round. For me, Ted’s life is a legacy of accomplishment, of strength, of music, of vitality. Although death might be the end of his life, the circle he opened shall never close... everyone that has ever been to Walden will continue to draw that circle. His spirit grows greater and stronger today than it ever was... just the thought of him covers me as a sheltering hand. Ted: you made my life a fuller one. You will be missed and remembered with love always and forever. Margot Agami Sobol CIT, 2003 19/08/08
ann and Arthur bookman August 20, 2008 04:38 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, Please accept our sincerest condolences on the loss of your beloved husband and father. May wonderful memories sustain you during this very sad time. Ann and Arthur
Kim tanzer August 20, 2008 04:14 PM
What Ted and you, Elaine created was a haven for me. I would count down the number of days to camp and could not sleep for nights prior and cried all the way home. I wrote in my diary at age 8 "I pray that camp can be during the school year because that is where I feel most free" . I learned invaluable life lessons at Walden. I learned how to build true and real friendships. I learned that I loved to sing despite my shitty voice. I learned how to live with many other people in a fairly small space--good training for my travels later on. I learned how to appreciate nature, and how to get really dirty and smelly on those canoe trips where I ate nothing but gorp and smores for days. I learned how to make my way through the bushes at night to visit friends in other cabins without getting caught by whoever was on od. I learned how to have fun and let loose. My first kiss happened at Walden along with my first boyfriend--name withheld. I discovered me at Walden, a place where I felt accepted and loved and was able to be independent. Ted, although you are not here physically your enormous spirit will be in my heart always. I am sending lots of love to all of you Coles--Elaine, Ryan and Cory Kim Tanzer
Beth Charles and family August 20, 2008 04:09 PM
...the memories of music and Madawaska will never be forgotten by my family....Thanks, Ted.
THE FELBERBAUM FAMILY August 20, 2008 04:08 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, Although growing up I never went to Walden, my experience at Camp Hiawatha as a child are some of my most cherished memories. So often I would meet an old friend and my kids would ask me who that is and I’d say I went to camp with them. It warms my heart to see that my kids have experienced the same with their years at Walden. They will never ever forget their experiences at Walden as Ted's love, spirit and compassion will remain in their souls forever. From the bottom of my heart, please know and feel the love and strength from all those who Ted and the entire Cole family have moulded into such wonderful young adults. Teds legend will live on forever. With love, Myra, Jerry, Marlee and Willie
Elizabeth Bourde August 20, 2008 04:08 PM
Elaine, My family and I will always be grateful to Ted for teaching us a new way of life. I will always consider him as my best friend, he will always live inside our souls. We want to say farewell with a round applause. Receive the love of all the Mexican children that have been in Walden and from my whole family. LIZ
Rayanne Clapham August 20, 2008 04:03 PM
Elaine Since I heard of Ted's passing, I have been thinking of my many summers spent at Walden. I had great summers. I learned to appreciate the love for the outdoors - canoe tripping, travelling and learned the meaning of friendship. As I read other messages, it brings back many memories and a smile to my face. Often when I bump into someone, my husband will say "how do you know that person - don't tell me Walden". . Many friends that I made at Walden are still very close to me today. Ted will be missed by always remembered. Rayanne
Marjorie Booth August 20, 2008 03:41 PM
Dear Elaine and family; How Ted will be missed by all of us in OCA, the Society, and of course, Kids In Camp. Over the years, Ted has given so much leadership and has added to the fellowship of all our camping circles. I will miss his humour, music, and his perspective enormously. I am praying for you all at this sad time.
Ian Pulver August 20, 2008 03:11 PM
The legend of Ted Cole will live forever. His teachings will carry on for generations to come. Very few people get the opportunity touch as many hearts as Ted did. He lived his life in such an extraordinary way. He was one of a kind. The world was a better place with him. He will be missed but never forgotten. Ian Pulver and Lara Pulver and Eric Pulver
Zoey Friedman August 20, 2008 02:53 PM
Since I found out yesterday morning of Ted's passing, I have been able to think of nothing else. Through Ted's unique dreams, strong character, endless dedication and passion he has created a place that is a home away from home for many, impacting the lives of thousands. Over the years I have grown up watching Walden change and grow, but more so, I have been at Walden watching myself grow, and for this reason when I think of Camp Walden and Ted Cole I cannot help but be grateful. I can honestly say that camp has had such profound influences on me; shaping my character, making my brother, my sisters and I the people we are today. Over the years camp has brought us closer together and has provided us with countless memories and priceless life lessons learned that we will be able to share forever. Even now after his death, what Ted has created at Walden – with its sense of community, of great music and strong appreciation for nature, it will continue shape lives of children for years to come. He will never, ever be forgotten, and this page alone is a pure display of that fact.
Devra Freedman August 20, 2008 02:47 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory: I am saddened to learn of Ted's passing. Ted's unique approach to life -- from camping to music and anything in between -- gave those of us fortunate to enjoy the Walden experience many pluses in life: life-long friendships, quality life experiences and a lot of laughter. My sincerest condolences on your loss.
Karen Shopsowitz August 20, 2008 02:46 PM
Words don’t exist to express the sadness I feel; it doesn’t seem possible to encapsulate in a few sentences the feelings I and others have for Ted. When I came to Walden, I truly felt that I had arrived home. Most of my closest friends are from my time there, and that’s so much because of the atmosphere that Ted and Elaine created, in terms of making everyone feel welcome and that we were capable of anything. One of my fondest memories of Ted is when he took me to the Palmer Rapids Bluegrass Festival, one day, out of the blue -- to share the music with him. Getting to go back to camp five years ago with David to do a video for the 35th anniversary was amazing; we asked everyone we could if Ted was an icon or an iconoclast. The answers were split -- but one thing remained true in every response: the immense love and respect everyone had for Ted, be they a colour camper or long time staff member. I’ll miss you, Ted. My love to Elaine, Ryan and Corey and the rest of the family.
Deeci (Rotblott) Lieberman from Florida August 20, 2008 02:40 PM
Dear Elaine and family, Thought it has been a while since we have seen each other, the fond memories of Camp Walden are forever etched in my mind. From the very beginning Ted always welcomed us as part of his family. I remember spending many nights with Ted having hot chocolate and sing songs around the camp fire. Winters were also a blast when we would come up for a weekend full of snowmobiling. He left an incredible impression on everyone he met and will always be remembered for his love of life. May you find comfort from each other during this difficult time. Cherish the memories Deeci (Rotblott) Lieberman
Susan Phillips August 20, 2008 02:35 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, Thank you Ted and Elaine for helping generations of city kids explore a different world and learn the songs that must be sung and gain a lifetime of wonderful memories and friends. No concert I've ever been to tops the spirit of a sing-along with Ted. And thanks, also, for making it possible for some of us to relive what camp is all about by being doctors or other hangers on at Walden.
Suzan Vaile August 20, 2008 01:28 PM
My very deepest sympathies on your loss. Ted was an amazing man who shaped the lives of so many of us from the "Walden" days. The world will be a greyer place without him.
Ephraim Fiksel August 20, 2008 01:00 PM
No matter how old we get, our soul and spirit stirs every June and we will all once again, and forever, remember Ted.
Michael Vineberg August 20, 2008 12:54 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Corey, Not a day goes by that I don't think of my time at Camp Walden. Ted's influence on my life, both directly through our many conversations and indirectly in the way he ran Walden was at a level on par with that of a parent. Ted was a wonderful man who will be missed more than words can describe. The Walden CD is my kids' most requested CD in the car and my 2 year old even asks to listen to Ted. Ted will forever be a part of my life and I am thankful for having spent 11 summers with him. My deepest sympathies to the entire Cole family. May you find comfort in the fact that Ted was a remarkable man who lived a remarkable life. No one could ever wish to be remembered in a better way. All our love, Michael Vineberg and Family.
Melanie Delson August 20, 2008 12:49 PM
Ryan & Janet, Elaine, Cory, We would like to express our heartfelt thoughts for your loss. We did not know Ted, like Jaimie did, but none the less we felt like we knew what an incredible man, family man, human and of course camp director he was, and will always be missed. Melanie, Darren & Kaia
Lily Enchin August 20, 2008 12:24 PM
My deepest condolences go out to Elaine and the entire Cole family for this tremendous loss. I have spent 10 incredible summers enraptured in the spell of Walden's beauty and like so many others, I can confidently say that Ted Cole has inspired and touched my life in ways that most can't. My mom (Deedee Weinstein), was at Walden for its first summer in 1970, and since then he has undoubtedly had a major impact on each of our lives, teaching us crucial life lessons we know we couldn't have learned from a better mentor. Thank you for providing a second home for two generations of my family, for the music, and most importantly for your enthusiasm and zest for life. You will be greatly missed.
shopsy August 20, 2008 12:22 PM
Dear Elaine Family I went to Camp Walden, as a tripper, on the recommendation of Shelley Baker and Bernie Lightman in 1972. It was love at first sight. Ted put together a truly unique camp experience on an amazing setting. From day one, Ted entrusted me and provided me with responsibility well beyond my years. Ted believed that canoe tripping was an integral part of the camp experience and no expense or effort was spared to make it a success. This led to many memorable and remarkable adventures for both campers and staff alike. 30 plus year later Walden has given me my wife Nancy (whom I met at camp in 1975), my closest friendships, and memories that will never leave me. Both Nancy and I are very sorry for your loss. Ted was an inspirational man who touched so many lives. Neil Shopsowitz
Susan [Axler] Rubin August 20, 2008 12:05 PM
Elaine and family, there are no words I could use that would be adequate to tell you how truly saddened I am to hear of Ted's passing. I had the great joy of having Ted as my CIT co-ordinator when I was only 16 and then again a few years later as a boss and friend when Walden opened. The first summer I spent with him he handed me Thoreau's book and made me read it as punishment. The truth behind Thoreau's words resonate more clearly now, than they did all those summers ago "If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured or far away." There are so many generations of us who benefited from his love and spirit of friendship because he had the courage to follow a different drummer and step to different music into the world of camping. The summers I spent with him were some of the best times of my life. I know his music will live on forever with you the family he cherished and adored. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Susan
Bonnie Newman(Weinstock) August 20, 2008 12:04 PM
Elaine and family, My heart is with you at this time. I remember Ted with life and joy and his love for you and your children and family. He will always be in the hearts of so many. You and he have made this world better because of who you are and who you became together. The joy you brought to him and I know what joy he brought to you, I remember when you first met at "the castle". My love my heart is with you. My family mourns Ted's passing and wishes you strength to remember and keep his love alive within.
Denise Brown Rotenberg and Family August 20, 2008 11:54 AM
It was with great sadness that I heard of Ted's passing. From Arrowhead to the early years of Walden, Ted played a significant role in my life. I will always remember him with great fondness. Our condolences to Elaine and her family.
Randy (Nusbaum) Tenenbaum August 20, 2008 11:48 AM
Dear Elaine, Corey and Ryan, I am completely devastated to learn of the loss of beloved Ted. It is difficult to imagine that someone with such a huge capacity for life could be taken so early…Thinking about him and Walden brings back the most amazing memories of some of the best times of my life. Walden truly was a magical place and everyone who had the privilege of sharing their summers with Ted and later Elaine and the boys will forever hold these years in a very special place in their hearts. I will always remember Ted grinning slyly as he dished out his unique brand of humour, one that all who knew him quickly came to appreciate. For me, Ted opened up an appreciation of nature that I had never experienced before. Just yesterday, I was visiting the McMichael Gallery in Kleinberg and as my husband and I walked through the woods and drank in the smell of the pine leaves, my thoughts went to Walden and of course, Ted (I had no idea of what had just happened…). The clean smell of the outdoors will forever evoke wonderful memories of summers that changed my life and of course, a happy, banjo-playing, fun-loving and cherished friend, Ted. Elaine, Corey and Ryan, please accept my deepest condolences on your loss – my thoughts and prayers are with you. Randy (Nusbaum) Tenenbaum
Susan Ceresne Smith August 20, 2008 11:35 AM
Dear Elaine........please accept my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I have known Ted my entire life, and you were so blessed to have such a special man. I wish you peace.
Iris Wagner August 20, 2008 11:33 AM
Dear Elaine and family, My deepest sympathies for your loss-- Ted has passed way too soon...The writings on this site are just a small testimony to Ted Cole being an authentic, genuine, special man who was loved by all who knew him. His leadership and legacy at Camp Walden has such a lasting impact on so many of us. My wish for you at this time is to take comfort that his soul and spirit will never be forgotten. With love and condolences, Iris.
Corey Shurman August 20, 2008 11:29 AM
Elaine, Ryan, Cory, and the rest of the family, my deepest condolences to you all during this time. The world has lost a very special man and we are all so lucky to have been touched by him. Ted was a leader, a dreamer, and an inspiration to me. He taught life lessons that whether he knows it or not, I will hold with me for the rest of my life. No dream is too big or too crazy just follow your heart and let your passion guide you. I am so fortunate to have had the opportunity to become a part of the Walden family. The friendships that were built and the memories that I hold close will be with me forever. As I sit here on the dock listening to Dylan all I can do is shed a tear and say thank you. Ted, you will be with me forever.
Bonnie Knobovitch August 20, 2008 11:28 AM
I was so sad to hear of Ted's passing. My deepest condolences goes out to the entire Cole family. Five of my most unbelievable summers were at Walden as a camper. Even though my last summer at Walden was over 18 years ago my memories are all so fresh in my mind. Ted had such an impact on my camp experiences and was such an amazing role model. He was a wonderful man - really one of a kind! If there were more people in the world like him the world would be a much better place. Ted has touched so many lives - he will be greatly missed!
Bruce Emmerton August 20, 2008 11:26 AM
Elaine and family, We are all very sorry for your loss. Ted was an inspiration and wonderful role model for the many of us beginning our careers in camping. He has certainly left a his mark on many campers, staff, and camp friends across the country. Bruce Emmerton & staff Trent Summer Sports Camp, Peterborough
Elana Maser August 20, 2008 11:15 AM
My deepest condolences to your whole family. Ted loved life and used it to its fullest. He lived his dream and in doing so, inspired many including me. I hold dear to my heart my time spent with your kind, loving and generous family.
Janice Levine August 20, 2008 11:01 AM
To the Cole Family Ted touched the lives and family of so many people in a quiet and skilful way. He will be missed. We hope in your loss you know that he wisdom will live on in those mentored along the way.
Handelsman Family August 20, 2008 10:44 AM
Dear Elaine, My first memory of Ted was when he took me up to Camp Walden the first winter before the camp officially opened. Although it was freezing, Ted insisted that we go out on skidoos & be shown what was to be Camp Walden. From that first moment I fell in love with Walden’s beauty & it never ended. I was always so excited every summer to come back & visit my children on visitors day &remember all the wonderful times spent there. To this day I have many friendships from that first year of Walden. TED WE HAD THE TIME OF OUR LIVES AND WE OWE IT ALL TO YOU we will miss you but never forget you love Pam(Wassermann)
Ellie and Lloyd Rubinoff August 20, 2008 10:43 AM
As my son Michael (Snowman) said it. Ted and Elaine were an inspiration as well as a second mom and dad to all my children who attended Camp Walden for many years. Elaine, Ryan, and Cory, Lloyd and I were deeply saddened by the tragic loss of Ted at such an early age when his life was just beginning. Lloyd and I hope you can gather the strength to overcome this very dark time in your lives. We will never forget all the great times of laughter we had with you and Ted that will remain in our hearts forever. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your families. Love Ellie and Lloyd Rubinoff
MUZZ August 20, 2008 10:42 AM
Elaine & the boys: I'll start by saying what I told Ted on the occasion of his 60th: he looked like Abe Lincoln, thought he was Woody Guthrie, and had the mouth of Lenny Bruce." In other words, one of a kind. Against all odds, he set up the anti-establishment camp; and, make no mistake, this was not Thoreau's Walden, this was Ted's Walden. For those of us whose roots were at other camps, we had never experienced the feeling of actually hanging out with the camp owner at the end of a summer day. But, that was Ted....he made us all feel intrinsically part of the camp....to such an extent, in fact, that when Elaine was pregnant, we ALL seemed to feel part of that experience! That's why we feel such a sense of loss: for, despite his sometimes gruff exterior, Ted cared deeply about those around him. Many of us will forever hold that vision of Ted, sitting in that yellow & black sports sweater (it was too ratty to be identified clearly as either hockey or football), chatting with staff or playing capture the flag with the campers. My heart is with Elaine right now, for their names virtually became one: "Tedandelaine", so linked were they in all aspects of their lives, from Walden, to travel, to just going to the movies. Is he gone too soon? There's no sugar-coating this: yes, way too soon. But, man, did he live! So long, Teddy.
Michael Feldman and Nanette Rosen August 20, 2008 10:21 AM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, Ted's vision and mission in life had a profound impact on our lives. We met at Camp Walden over 30 years ago and after 29 years of marriage and two wonderful children (Elizabeth and Ethan, both of whom benefited from the Walden experience for many years) we owe much of the happiness in our lives to our precious days at Camp Walden. Ted had such a great impact on the lives of so many. He will be greatly missed. Ted was always a supporter of a strong tripping program. I developed my love of canoe trips at Walden and had the privilege of working as a tripper there. One of the concepts we tried to teach campers was to leave each camp site in better shape than it was when you arrived. Ted has left this world only after touching so many people and making their lives better than they were before he arrived. May you and your extended family find comfort in your loss knowing that Ted's vision lives on in the hearts and minds of so many.
Myrna Weinstein August 20, 2008 09:59 AM
Dear Elaine and family, I was very saddened to hear of Ted's passing. As far back as Camp Arrowhead days we always knew what a remarkable man Ted was and naturally our children followed him to Walden which had such a wonderful impact on their lives. We too were blessed with the Walden experience and our week-ends with you made us the envy of many other parents. I am grateful that we stayed in touch all these years and that some of our grandchildren were lucky enough to enjoy Walden with both of you. I hope Percy and Ted are already involved in a hot game of hearts. with much love and deepest sympathy Myrna
Snowman (Michael Rubinoff) August 20, 2008 09:44 AM
My 15 summers at Walden provided me with precious time with my siblings, my most important friendships, memories of the most wonderful childhood, a name that I cherish and most importantly the passion and will to follow my dreams. I owe all of this to Ted the master dreamer and my dearest Elaine. I trace my love and knowledge of music directly to him; I trace my love of the theatre directly to his stage. He was always the most important audience member whether I was a 14 year-old Tevye or directing the Zodiac play. It was Ted’s approval and sometimes disapproval, thoughts, laughter or smile that signalled whether a show was a hit or a flop. He was full of advice and guidance and I always saw him as a second father figure growing up. He gave so much to me and for that I am so grateful. I can never look into a “camp fire” without hearing Ted’s voice full of reflection. So much of what is important in my life is traced back to him. I was overwhelmed with emotion on my last night at Walden. I will never forget Ted singing to me at the last sing song, telling me the only way he could, to go out into the world and follow your dreams. My second show as a professional theatre producer was “Free To Be…You And Me” at the St. Lawrence Centre for the Arts in Toronto. I did this show because of Ted and it was incredibly special for me when I landed the biggest casting coup of my career, Ted Cole. Working with Ted in this capacity was monumental. Having his strum of the banjo and his beautiful voice open my show is one of the most special memories of my life. I will never forget that opening night and never forget his generosity towards everyone involved. My dreams came full circle and to share it with him was an opportunity of a life time. He gave me so much. Elaine, Ryan and Cory, my heart is overwhelmed with love for you in this very difficult time. Ted’s spirit, passion, love and desire to dream will forever remain in the thousands who had the great privilege of knowing him. All of my love Snowman.
Luci & Lorrie Solish August 20, 2008 09:40 AM
Dear Elaine and Family, Lorrie and I are saddened to hear of Ted's passing. He has left a legacy that is beyond even his imagination. He has touched the lives of thousands of people who will never forget his incredible persona. May you find comfort in these thoughts and may you find strength with your children and family.
MARTY HANDELMAN August 20, 2008 09:34 AM
MY SINCERE CONDOLENSES TO THE COLE FAMILY.TED CAME INTO MY LIFE AT CAMP WALDEN IN YEAR ONE.MY MEMORIES OF TED WALKING FROM UNIT TO UNIT WITH HIS DOG ZACK REPLAY IN MY MIND AS THE YEARS GO BY.HIS LOVE OF CHILDREN AND THE OUTDOORS WAS TRULY AMAZING.HE HELPED SHAPE ME AS A YOUNG PERSON TO THE MAN I HAVE BECOME.LATER ON BOTH MY KIDS WENT TO CAMP WITH MY DAUGHTER MICHELE SPENDING 10 WONDERFULL SUMMERS AS A CAMPER THEN STAFF.EVERYTIME IT RAINS WE WILL REMEMBER TED WITH HIS BANJO GETTING READY FOR ONE OF HIS LOVE FILLED SING SONGS.AS I SIT OUT ON MY DOCK LOOKING AT THE BEAUTIFUL LAKE MY MIND DRIFTS BACK TO MY DAYS AT WALDEN AND I CAN SMILE KNOWING HOW LUCKY I WAS TO SHARE THIS TIME WITH SUCH A WONDERFULL MAN. REST EASY TED YOU WILL NEVER BE FAR FROM OUR THOUGHTS. MARTY HANDELMAN.
Brenda Willis August 20, 2008 09:20 AM
I wish to express my sincere sympathies to Elaine, Ryan, Corey and your entire family. Ted touched my life in a very special way. In the 32 years I spent at Madawaska, Ted always made me and my children feel part of the family. I will always remember his exceptional sense of humour, his musical talents that he shared with us and his warm heart and generous hospitality. This is truly a sad day and my heart is with you as you mourn your loss.
Terry Pollack & Barbara Gross August 20, 2008 09:15 AM
Elaine, we are so sorry for your loss. Ted was one fine man. He will be remembered because he touched the lives of so many people.
Jay Sidenberg August 20, 2008 09:15 AM
Ted "Cozy" Cole was my counsellor at Camp Tamarack in the late 50's. He was an incredible inspiration to everyone at the camp. He gave us an appreciation and insight into folk music and how to have fun. The world has lost a very special person. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Aly Boltman August 20, 2008 09:12 AM
It's pretty hard to find the words to express how I am feeling. I regret that it took Ted's passing for me to take the time to really evaluate the meaning he had in my life. I live in a place now where most kids don't ever get to go to camp, and will never experience the kind of transformation I underwent at Walden. Walden gave me a safe place where I grew to love nature, and where my love for music was nurtured. Ted introduced me to music on a level where no one else in my life was able to - I cannot listen to Janis Ian without picturing Ted up there playing for us. When I met her in New York, I remember telling her about Ted and his music, and how he introduced us to a group of monumental musicians well off our generational radar. As an adult, I can't even begin to imagine how much courage it took to be in charge of all of us, year after year, with all the baggage and bravado we brought with us every summer. Ted was a visionary in his own way, and I consider myself lucky to have known him. He will be missed by many.
Renee Levitan Blatt August 20, 2008 08:12 AM
Elaine and Family, It has been many years since I have seen you all and hearing about Ted has made me very sad. I have the most wonderful memories of him and my years at Walden, which will live with me forever. Walden really was a turning point in my life and it has been with me all these years. I'm unable to make it to Toronto this week but my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Gail Granik Shatz August 20, 2008 07:27 AM
Very few people have such an impact on so many lives, Ted was one of those people..Summers at Walden were some of the best memories I have ever had. My deepest sympathies to Elaine, Cory and Ryan.
Bonnie (Merling) Goodman, Sarah, Ellie, Eden and Anthony Goodman August 20, 2008 07:02 AM
Walden has played such an important role in our family's life. It has helped us create lifelong friendships and memories that would not have been possible without Ted's vision and hard work. Thank you Ted for making this possible. Our warmest condolences to Elaine, Cory and Ryan.
Kelsey Noakes August 20, 2008 06:42 AM
I am so sorry that Ted is gone, what an amazing man. My life is what it is because of camp, everyone in my life is because of camp. Thank you Ted for making that possible. I will miss you dearly.
Jonny, Ryla, Sari & Romy Lightman August 20, 2008 05:46 AM
Not possible!! A man as vital, energetic, & possessing such vision could be taken so soon. A man who brought so much love & passion & humour to every project & relationship he encountered. A man who picked Elaine, the strongest & most thoughtful woman I know, to be his life partner in a blessed marriage & thriving business. One complemented & completed the other - the 2nd mother & father to thousands of Walden campers. A supportive & nurturing father to two other outstanding personalities in Ryan & Cory. A patriarch of the Cole family who influenced & touched all of his in-laws, and nephews & nieces & all of their children in a continuous profound manner. Ted developed a special & unusual loving relationship with his mother-in-law Pearl. This was always a special joy to see the two "in action" with one another - loving, respecting & kibitzing. A generous & welcoming host who opened his house & cabin - whatever the occasion. A man with an outsized personality & wicked, nasty humour that never failed to perversely entertain. A learned scholar on a diverse number of social, political and arts related topics, fuelled by his passion for reading newspaper, magazines & journals. A man whose decisive & assured leadership style provided comfort to our Camp Walden community. He was a "fan" of great people in a all walks of life - from Dylan to that great junior counsellor in the Colour unit. He celebrated talent & attracted the best to work with him. The Hearts boys loved his company - he was a self deprecating "loser" when the cards were bad - never showing frustration in his title of "Renege King". I worked at Walden for 19 summers, and took on the role of Ted's 2nd for ten wonderful years that were filled with laughter, learning & great stories. We developed a profoundly deep connection where we could "read" each other's thoughts & emotions. My family has not stopped thinking about Ted - Walden shaped our lives & we are so grateful for the experience. We were with him during his struggles with his health, especially over the last year. He beat several near-death episodes very recently - we anticipated his fighting for years to come. Things have changed significantly as of today - I will miss you forever.
Robert Morton August 20, 2008 05:21 AM
My first summer at Camp Walden was 32 years ago and 5 of the best summers of my life were spent there. I have many memories of Ted. Of course always passing his cabin on the way down to skiing, Cole in Concert, stories he told of his youth (he saw Steely Dan in concert - which was pretty cool to me) the dining hall sing alongs (Okie in Muskokie stays with you forever), his umpiring of the rest hour softball games and even lights out visits from the Camp Director - where "nuggies" were handed out freely. You created a beautiful camp and lifelong memories for thousands Ted. Thank you and may you rest in peace knowing how much you gave others. Rob Morton
Robby Milne August 20, 2008 04:31 AM
The impact that Ted/Walden had on my life cannot be described in words. I worked at Camp Arrowhead and followed him to Walden. He was a man of faith and vision and we supported each other throughout many challenges. He never "gave up" on me; and I on him. How blessed I was to have met him and Elaine at "Belle Ewart by the sea." There are 273 window panes in the dining hall at Walden and I am proud to say I was the one to wash each of them before the first camper ever set foot on Walden ground! Ted was one of my hero. I love you Teddy and I know you will keep an eye on all of us.
Julie Heller Varon August 20, 2008 02:21 AM
Unbelievable what impact one man can have on so many people. Ted touched our lives in a way that time will never erase. It's been almost 35 years since I last saw him but it seems like yesterday when I sat in awe of his command of his campers...using music as a conduit. We should all be so fortunate to leave such a legacy. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family during this difficult time.
Karen Weinstein August 20, 2008 01:32 AM
Dear Elaine, Ryan & Cory, I am heartbroken. The world has lost a remarkable man. I was 10 years old when Ted entered my life at Camp Arrowhead, and for the past 40 years he has continued to have a profound effect on me. He taught me so much- about friendship, sharing, caring, humour (mostly X-Rated), music, life and more. I always cherished our talks, trips to camp, dinners...Tonight I sat outside at the cottage and looked up at the stars as my mind was flooded with thousands of memories. So many songs, so many memories. All day I kept hearing his voice in my head, singing: "For the river is time and it flows toward the sea And in leaving its banks you are free, you are free But you're haunted, you're hunted wherever you roam Spoon River, Spoon River is calling you home." Elaine, you always shared Ted with us- and now we share your loss. I loved Ted and will miss him terribly.
Allie Maltz August 20, 2008 01:20 AM
Ted created what I looked forward to all year round, for years, Walden. He created a place where I made friendships and memories that will last me a life time. He created a place where I could always feel accepted and happy. He created my favourite night of the summer, his sing songs. A person who created all that for me, and for many others, had to be a very special man, and he really was. pass the music on.
Noah Sliwin and Adam Eliesen August 20, 2008 01:03 AM
It was 10 years ago where both of us were captured in the spell of Walden’s beauty. Ever since we have both been best friends. Walden is not only a place of activities or friends it is a place of memories which Ted created for us and has given us for the last 10 year. Without Walden neither of us would be the same. Without the Cole family we would not be complete. You made our summers perfect and you will always be a part of Walden. From all your hard work 39 years ago you created a summer camp that so many of us will remember as our childhood. Without Ted’s dream of Walden we would not know each other and we are forever grateful. We thank Ted for all the memories he has given us and all the memories that will come in the future. Ted has been an amazing role model to us and we are so privileged that we knew him. We are forever saddened by the loss and we would like to give our greatest condolences to the Cole family. In honour of Ted’s memory we will keep passing the music on.
Jerry, Betty, Adam and Lauren Caplan August 20, 2008 12:48 AM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory: Meeting Ted and coming to Camp Walden that 1st summer back in 1970 was the single most significant event of our lives. It has shaped the past 38 years for our family. We feel so blessed to have known Ted and to have been a part of Walden history. Ted's passing has deeply affected us all and yet we know that his spirit and his music will live on in all those who knew him. We will be forever grateful for the pioneer spirit and the vision that Ted always had. We would suspect that Ted probably never expected when he decided to open Walden that he would have had such an effect on the lives of so many people. He will be sadly missed but our memories will remain forever. Love Jerry, Betty, Adam and Lauren
Eric Karen Dylan Skylar & Taylor Pulver from Chicago August 19, 2008 11:52 PM
Elaine, Ryan and Cory, my thoughts are with you at this most difficult time I was saddened earlier today and have been thinking of all of you since. 37 years ago I met Ted at Walden for the first time, I was 8. I lived well over 1 year of my life in total summers at Walden. Walden was a magical place that created everlasting memories and experiences that have enriched my life. I admire and am thankful for Ted's dedication, foresight and passion to have created Walden. It's not often that so many people have been touched so positively by an individual outside their immediate family. What a team Ted and Walden made! He taught us about friendship and how to enjoy life. As a kid at camp I recall Ted having the ability to relate to us as if he was a kid and with a quick comment or look he would keep us in line. He never lost that special gift of listening and making you feel comfortable even when I spoke with him as an adult. I loved his sense of humour. He inspired me to explore nature and venture on many canoe trips and to return to Walden as a tripper. Ted's music remains on my iPod today. Ted's dream has lived on with my children who were at Walden this summer. I will miss Ted just as I do my days at Walden, his spirit and the memories he helped to create will live on forever.
Simona and Josh Sable August 19, 2008 11:26 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, They say that imitation is the greatest form of flattery. Over the years, many of us have tried to imitate Ted - the grey sock on the face, the low-riding track pants, the deep baritone voice, the generous use of swear words, the numerous quotable lines ... but the truth is that no matter how many times we try to say "Get on the buses", none of us can ever really do justice to the real deal. And Ted, after all, was, the real deal - a visionary with the Midas touch. He had the wonderful ability to make everyone he knew feel really special. When he greeted you at camp, in his office or in his home, it was always with that big bear hug and a genuine smile. The outpouring of support and good wishes that will fill this memorial book and others is a clear reflection on how much Ted meant to so many people. What a remarkable life - we should all aspire to touch the lives of so many.
Michael Binder & Jackie Saltsman August 19, 2008 11:20 PM
Elaine, Ryan and Cory, We are so sorry to hear about "our" loss. Ted was such a special man who always knew how to put a smile on our faces. We spent a combined 22 summers at Walden and our fondest memories of camp are of the friends we made and of the life lessons that Ted instilled upon us. We will always remember sitting around the camp fire listening to Ted teach us about music, his infamous Walden Games kickoff speech, and of course the special feeling you would get when he would give you one of his big hugs. He will be missed dearly but our memories of him will last forever
Fred Okada August 19, 2008 11:02 PM
To the Cole family, I was shocked to receive the message of Ted's passing. It saddens me to think that this wonderful caring person is lost to all of us. To the family I pray that God will give you peace and comfort at this time of grief. Please accept my condolences. I will miss him.
Rivka Steinhouse Garson August 19, 2008 10:51 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, For the short time I was part of the Walden family in 1996/7 the memories and experiences I hold dear still move me today. I wished all my adult life my children would have the opportunity to feel what it was like to be a part of something so great! Elaine, you and Ted have created and shared so much with so many and I just want to thank you. I wish you long life and strength during this difficult time. Much love from our new home in Melbourne Australia, Rivka Steinhouse Garson
Lesley August 19, 2008 10:49 PM
Dear Elaine, Cory and Ryan, my sincerest condolences. My heart is with you through this difficult time. Ted will always be remembered and his spirit will live on. For every time I hear music, I will remember Ted. I spent 13 amazing summers at your camp, summers that help shape me into the person I am today. Some of my life's fondest memories and milestones were created at your special camp. My thoughts are with you. I send you all, strength and prays. Lots of love, Lesley Rubinoff
Jillian Newman August 19, 2008 10:48 PM
I have been overwhelmed with emotion to hear about Ted's passing. The eight summers that I spent at Walden provided me with such rich and meaningful experiences, memories, and life lessons without which I would not be the person I am today. From Cole in Concert, to the many Singsongs throughout the summer, to the Rock Show after Walden Games, the way Ted shared his love for music was magical and contagious. I am so extremely grateful to have been able to spend my summers at Walden while Ted so passionately cared for the experience of each and every camper and staff at camp. Ted's memory will live on in the many people whose lives he influenced. Thank you, Ted, for "passing the music on." I will surely keep passing it on. You will be sadly missed. My deepest condolences go out to Elaine and the family. xoxo - Jilly Newman
Brian Zidel August 19, 2008 10:44 PM
At this moment, I wish I could just reach back, grab Ted by the hand and enjoy just one more game of hearts; or throw one more football to the man; enjoy one more swipe of the ping pong racquet as he slams it by me ( I never did beat him )...hey what about just one more night of banjo and song. Ted, we will forever miss you.
Lisa Blumer Levin August 19, 2008 10:35 PM
My times at Walden, especially the sing songs and burning of the W were some of the best in my life. These were not just because they were camp memories, but because of Ted. Tonight we had a campfire at our cottage I shared my memories with my children, and played the songs from the CD. My deepest condolences to the Cole family. Ted may be gone, and much too soon, but he will live on in so many of our hearts.
Anonymous August 19, 2008 10:34 PM
I'm very sorry for your loss. My friend told me about what happened and I found out a bit more about him and I want you to know that everywhere around, people care.
Mary Noble August 19, 2008 10:31 PM
Dear Elaine, My heart is with you. Ted's passing is such a tremendous loss. He fought this so defiantly for so long and his most recent message to me gave me some warning that this day might be coming. Ted's life was a gift to me in so many ways, so very many years ago. Our friendship endured over the long distance and it has been a true joy to know that his family gave him such fulfillment. Walden was his dream so long ago, and it was a dream that came true in the lives of so many. His voice, his persona, his presence, will always be remembered as a blessing to us all. May you be comforted among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. love, Mary
Steve Wagman August 19, 2008 10:28 PM
Elaine, Cory, and Ryan...Our Condolences from New York. I have the fondest memories of Ted and will carry them with me forever -- really glad two of my children (Amy and Alison) got to meet, hear, and see Ted at his best as well.....his good times, music, energy, and spirit lives on. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
August 19, 2008 10:27 PM
My deepest condolences to Ted's family. I met Ted through the Madawaska Volleyball camp as an athlete in 91/92 and as a coach 97/98. Ted has always been a main stay in my memories of Madawaska. The music he shared enriched the lives of those who were exposed to it.. even if it was only one or two nights a year. I was glad to meet Ted and am saddened at the thought of him not being at Madawaska when I get the opportunity to return. Rusty Haines Head coach Trent Univesity Men’s' Volleyball Program
Elana Epstein August 19, 2008 10:21 PM
Cory and Ryan...to you I send strength for the loss and sadness that has touched your lives. Though we never got to know each other that well, through my parents I have come to learn that you are becoming the men that your father was..may you find comfort in all that your father has left you with in your heart as you find your way through this journey. love and light, Elana Epstein
Mary Noble August 19, 2008 10:20 PM
Dear Elaine, My heart is with you. Ted's passing is such a tremendous loss. He fought this so defiantly for so long and his most recent message to me gave me some warning that this day might be coming. Ted's life was a gift to me in so many ways, so very many years ago. Our friendship endured over the long distance and it has been a true joy to know that his family gave him such fulfillment. Walden was his dream so long ago, and it was a dream that came true in the lives of so many. His voice, his persona, his presence, will always be remembered as a blessing to us all. May you be comforted among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. love, Mary
Elana Epstein August 19, 2008 10:09 PM
As I sit to write a message that can begin to express the sadness in my heart, I am filled with an inability to understand the magnitude of this loss. Ted's voice will forever be in my heart, the memories from Camp Walden will always be some of the most precious times of my life and I will continue to carry the light of Ted through the music that we share with our three kids.....even in their voices, you can hear the magic and beauty of what Walden was and always will be. Ted, you will be missed! We will hold you dear to our hearts forever. Elaine, we send you our deepest sympathy and are holding hands with mom and dad tonight with our thoughts going out to you from afar. Wishing we could be with! Much love and strength to you for the following days! Elana
Susie Petersiel Berg August 19, 2008 10:05 PM
I have been pondering all day what message to send. No words seem right. Elaine, you and Ted, along with all the friends I made at Walden, helped me take one more step on my journey to becoming the adult I am. I am grateful for the time spent and the lessons learned in the spell of Walden's beauty. I close my eyes, and I can hear Ted's voice and banjo... truly sweet sounds. My thoughts are with you and your family. With love, Susie
August 19, 2008 09:40 PM
In my memory, Ted will always exist as the man with the Abe Lincoln beard who stood in front of a camp-full of energetic kids of all ages and captivated each and every one of us with his folksy songs. To this day, when I listen to the songs on the Walden website, I shed tears for the fond memories, but today I shed tears for the loss of a man who touched so many of us. Because of the trust I placed in Ted, I looked no further when it came time to send my young children to camp. This year, we embarked on the long journey from Pittsburgh in order to give my kids the same experience that I was so fortunate to have had. With great sadness, Kathy Mendelson Horne
Lorne Shiff August 19, 2008 09:27 PM
Dear Elaine Ryan & Cory, When I heard the sad news about Ted this morning my heart sank as we have all lost one of the most important people to so many. Ted did more each summer at camp than most do in a lifetime. His influence has shaped so many. For me he gave me an opportunity to experience so much from everything in camp to the wonderful world of canoe trips plus so much more. I will continue to celebrate the music that was Ted.
Harriet Susan and Oded Fried and Family August 19, 2008 09:21 PM
It is with great sadness we heard of the death of Ted. Having spent 18 summers in camp Walden we learned to appreciate his music, his life in the country and his philosophy of helping and enriching the life of children. Our family life was greatly enriched by spending the summers in camp. We wish to convey to Elaine and all the family that our hearts are with you.
Ann Mendelson Steiner August 19, 2008 09:12 PM
Though it has been 30+ years since my days at Camp Walden, it is with fond memories that I remember each and every one of them. Ted cast a magical spell upon those of us who were lucky enough to know him and it is in our memories of camp that he will always live. My deepest sympathy. Ann Mendelson Steiner
Esti Gross August 19, 2008 09:12 PM
The one thing I remember about Ted is how he called my dad an ass after I read him an upsetting email I had just received from my father. Ted told me that if my dad didn't realize what an amazing person I was then he was a @#!% a-hole. Then Ted gave me a big hug and told me to take the rest of the afternoon off and enjoy the beautiful day. He had a huge heart and would do anything for you :)
Betsy Locke August 19, 2008 09:10 PM
Elaine, Ryan and Cory...my thoughts are with you at this time..xxoo
Cherney Family August 19, 2008 09:00 PM
Dear Elaine and family, We are so sad to hear of Ted's passing. Ted was a wonderful man. We are blessed that Ted and Walden have been such a positive part of our family. Our thoughts are with you. Mike, Shari, Maddie and David Cherney
Robbie Granik August 19, 2008 08:53 PM
Dear Elaine, There are very few people that make the world a better place and impact our lives and our children’s. Ted was one of them. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Denise Brody August 19, 2008 08:50 PM
It’s with great sorrow that we heard about the death of Ted. Ted had a profound influence on my family. Some of best memories were of camp Walden. Sincerely, Denise Brody, Sarah and Jesse Lambersky
Chantel Morin August 19, 2008 08:48 PM
My deepest condolences to the Cole family. I may have only spent two years working at camp, but they were memorable and his music will live on in many hearts. With love Chantel Morin (nee Barnes) and family
Penny (Chikofsky) Fiksel August 19, 2008 08:27 PM
Dearest Elaine, Ryan and Janet, Cory and Elizabeth, Ted was a unique man. Talented, daring, natural, loving and he had the courage to follow his dream. Camp Walden is a world that transcends Ted's dream because it resounds through the universe in the hearts of all Waldeners; staff and campers. It is cruel and beyond belief that he was taken from you so soon. I cannot imagine the world without his special humour, energy and voice. I learned so much from Ted. So much about music, humour, being myself and the beautiful Walden sky. On some nights, after the late summer rain, I can smell the cedar giving its scent out on the cool night breeze. At those moments I am back at Walden walking from the mess hall to my summer residences. It was first in the Pig's sty. Then I was in the Seeker unit and finally when working for Ted in 1991 I had my own little cabin along the road to the Seeker Unit. That little cabin was the first time in my life that I had my own place. Ted knew that and he even dropped by once and visited me as if it was my own place. He advised me that visit that to keep the mosquitoes away to just turn my fan and let it oscillate. He told me that if the air isn't still the mosquitoes wont alit and bit. And it was true. That summer with little Zach and Zoey in their units, the Comic and Colour Units respectively, was extremely important to me. Not only did I get to work for Ted Cole again but it was important for the things that came of that summer. Both my children's lives are enriched beyond anything I could have done for them on my own. Also dear to me is my own enduring friendship with Ryan and now with beautiful Janet and that exquisite baby Emma. I tutored and became good friends with Cory and we had some really funny experiences together. I feel blessed to have them in my life. Elaine, you have been kind to and generous with Ephraim and I; keeping us close to your boys and sharing your delicious dining fare with us . I will never forget the stories of India that you and Ted shared with Ephraim and I. I enjoyed that evening and it remains one of my fondest memories of my time with you and Ted. What I have written here is just the tiniest expression of my gratitude, my respect and my love for you all. I miss Walden every day and will miss Ted just as much. Love, Penny (Chikofsky) Fiksel
The Brotman Family August 19, 2008 08:11 PM
When a person touches on a child's life and leaves a positive and indelible mark, that light continues to shine bright in the hearts of every Walden camper and family who knew him. Ted certainly was a bright light in the hearts of our children! On behalf of this Walden family, I extend our heartfelt condolences to the entire Cole family as we all mourn Ted's passing! May his memory shine brightly in the hearts of all those he touched! - Haley,Maddy,Randy and Neil.
Emma Valliant August 19, 2008 07:43 PM
Dear Elaine and Family. I'm sorry to hear of Ted's passing. I've been going to Madawaska Volleyball Camp for 18 years, and one of things I liked the most was seeing Ted's smiling face and his warm hugs. And of course all the stories he told at the Swamp. I will always remember my favourite night at camp, Hootenanny Night, and the red shirts we all wore for him. Love, Emma
Samantha Cook. August 19, 2008 07:42 PM
No words could ever describe Ted Cole - a true mensch. He was someone who dedicated his life to enriching others. He is responsible for lifelong relationships and unforgettable memories. One of my best friends informed me of his passing. After we both expressed to each other how amazing of an individual he was, we thanked him for our friendship. Ted Cole's music and spirit will be remain in the kid I was, and adult I am forever. He will always be captured in the "spell of Walden's beauty." - Samy.
Susan Zikman August 19, 2008 07:27 PM
Dear Elaine & Family, It is with great sadness that I heard of Ted's passing this morning. Although I only went to Walden for one summer, I experienced the greatness of a wonderful man who was blessed with having the gift of loving children, loving life and loving music. Every friendship that started at Walden still remains today because of the love, laughter and joy that Ted showed to everyone at this magical place. I can only hope that Ted's love of life will help you get through this. All my love! Susan Zikman (Zik)
Ron Ashworth (Rockin' Ron) August 19, 2008 07:21 PM
I will be unable to attend the services for Ted but please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of a great man and musician. As a long time Madawaska participant I can testify to the positive impact and qualities he exemplified to the many campers who passed through Camps Walden and Madawaska. His enjoyment of life and many Hootenanny's will forever remain in the minds and hearts of his Madawaska family.
Nancy, Joel, Bonnie, Robert, Anthony and Daniel Prussky August 19, 2008 07:09 PM
Dear Elaine and Family, we are shattered at the death of our old friend Ted. We went thru the Forest Hill school system together and had the distinction of being expelled from grade 10 together. The kids started at Camp Arrowhead when Ted was the director and when it was time to go to sleep over camp Joel and Bonnie only wanted to go to Ted's Camp. The rest of course is history as you know. We all have wonderful memories of Camp Walden and of you and Ted. Our hearts are sad - thinking of all of you. Love,
Harvey Rotstein August 19, 2008 07:08 PM
Elaine, Ryan and Corey, Ted was my counsellor, my boss and my friend. A lot of what I am today is because of his teachings. He will be sorely missed.
Tammy Kerbel August 19, 2008 07:00 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory I am so saddened by the loss of one of the Greatest Men I have ever known. Ted knew me from the time I was 10 and watched me grow every summer till I was 18 -from Arrowhead to Walden I followed this man and his magic. His influence in my life helped to mould me into who I am and I know I am a better person from knowing Ted. He will always have a special place in my heart and know that he truly was an EXTRAORDINARY Man . He will live on in all of us forever You have my deepest condolences
Sarah Lambersky August 19, 2008 07:00 PM
Ted had a huge impact on my family. Not only did my brother and I attend Walden, my mother was one of the early staff members in the early 70s. I have fond memories of Ted as a leader, musician and a great supporter of the Tripping staff at camp. I am happy to have had the chance to spend time with such a wonderful human being. Sarah Lambersky Walden 94-00 Jesse Lambersky Denise Brody
Richard Goodfellow August 19, 2008 07:00 PM
Dear Elaine , Cory and Ryan I was first introduced to Ted and Walden through my brother Dennis. They would play guitar and banjo all through the nights. I started at Walden in year two. It was so special to plant the trees , build the gate,waterfront.Ted was the camp; the music the stories the pranks. Elaine , we almost lost him that day the plane crashed. After that you'd think he'd be around forever. Both my children went to Walden then both worked there. It was an honour and a joy for all of us. I still have friends today from back then. Pete Seegar was recently in Toronto...I'm sure he was asking about Ted.
Kevin and Elissa Stone August 19, 2008 06:53 PM
Elaine, Ryan, Cory and the rest of the Cole family. We are deeply saddened by your loss. We hope you are able to find some comfort in remembering the wonderful memories you shared with Ted. He has been a true ambassador of all that is good in the world. Knowing your family for my entire life makes this news particularly sad for me. In the short time that Elissa has known you both she carries great fondness for your family and you are all in our thoughts during this very difficult time.
Carly Cohen August 19, 2008 06:48 PM
I am so sad to hear about Ted's passing. I will never forget our sing songs. I also remember when I was in the colour unit, and I was homesick, Ted brought me into his cabin and gave me an apple juice and spoke words that got me through. I loved Ted. I loved Walden. I will never forget my time there as it shaped my childhood.
Jacobson Family August 19, 2008 06:43 PM
The image of Ted with his banjo, standing in front of a group of kids singing and creating the warm environment that has changed so many lives -- that is what we all remember and cherish. As Ted sang in the Walden Circle Game, we've all been "captured in the spell of Walden's beauty" and it was Ted who created that. Our most sincere condolences go out to you and your family. Karin, Teddy, Neil, Paul, Sydney and Taylor
Krys & Roger Lahaie August 19, 2008 06:28 PM
Please accept my deepest condolences in your loss of a great man. I met Ted many times through the years whenever I would visit my friend Kerri at the office for Camp Walden. I remember his sense of humour, his warmth & obvious pleasure in meeting new people. I saw how he accepted Kerri into your family & that showed me what a compassionate man he was. Your loss is a loss to everyone who had the pleasure of being able to meet him.
Bob Vaile August 19, 2008 06:20 PM
Ted was the director of Camp Arrowhead when I met him as a little boy. He and Elaine left to start Walden and I followed them when I was old enough. My camping memories are amongst the most vivid and powerful of my youth and I thank Ted for that. This bad news has reached me in home in snowy Arthur's Pass, New Zealand attesting to the power and breadth of the Walden network for which all credit is due to Ted. My thoughts go out to his family. I think I might just play some old Weavers songs and think quietly of those olden days.....
Tony tenWesteneind August 19, 2008 06:20 PM
Please pass on my condolences to the Cole family and all of his friends at Madawaska. Madawaska has a special place in my heart largely because Ted was a great facilitator of fun in the great outdoors! Everyone will miss him.
The Rubens Twins' August 19, 2008 06:10 PM
Ted, We were always captured by the spell of Walden's beauty but it was you who truly made it beautiful for us. Thank you for the best summers of our lives! We love you and we send our love and condolences to Elaine and family. Bobbi, Doug, Sally, Peggy
Jack, Kerry and Ben Siegel August 19, 2008 06:08 PM
Elaine, Ryan, Cory, With the thoughts going through my head over the past hours, I could write a book. Come to think of it, somebody should. I've never known anyone quite like Ted. No one outside my family has had as profound an impact upon who I am and what I see as important in life. What I learned and experienced at Walden, primarily from and through Ted, makes me a better person, and more importantly, a better father, today. There was a special feeling that grew there Actually, it’s always here to stay I was just one child who found the answer Found it in the simple Walden way I loved this man, and I share your grief. May the immense impact he has had upon so many comfort you today and throughout this time. And may time itself give comfort, allowing today’s pain to be replaced by the joyful memories of a life well - no, brilliantly - lived. Jack
Graham Maxwell August 19, 2008 06:07 PM
Elaine, Cory and Ryan, I am truly saddened for your loss, my deepest sympathy to you and the rest of your family. Hearing of his passing was a shock and a reminder to look back on everything Ted gave to us in our most influential years. I don't think any of us would be who we are today without the inspiration of Ted, his passion and his music, advice, guidance, humour and humanity, and for that I am truly grateful. My deepest respects.
David and Meghan (Slan) Levine August 19, 2008 06:06 PM
Ted was a powerful influence on all who were blessed with the gift of his time. He made moments very special for all those around him, and that was his extraordinary gift. His passion for music and fair play were infectious. Because of his dedication to passing these passions forward he was nowhere near the last of his kind. Meghan and I are both grateful for all that his realised vision made possible. We will both miss him dearly. Elaine, Ryan and Cory, our thoughts and deepest sympathies are with you.
The Bonder Family August 19, 2008 06:03 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan, Cory, and family, We are so sorry to hear about Ted's passing. He will be deeply missed by the many people whose lives he touched and influenced, both personally, and with Walden. Ted, the Cole family, and Camp Walden have been instrumental in shaping mine and my brothers' lives. Many of our fondest memories were made there. Lots of love, Shoshana (Bonder) Fruitman and Josh, Ami, and Noah Bonder
Jordy, Sami, Jake, Robyn, and Howard Beale August 19, 2008 06:00 PM
Simply put, thank you for our childhoods. Camp Walden has been, still is, and forever will be, a major part of our lives. Ted has left an indelible mark on two generations of our family and will forever be remembered.
Lee-Anne Gray née Blant August 19, 2008 05:49 PM
I am deeply saddened to hear of Ted's passing. Please accept my sincere condolences. Know that his music is always in my heart. Lee-Anne Gray née Blant
Lily, Sophie, and Anne Blumenthal August 19, 2008 05:41 PM
Thank you, Ted.
Bobby Freeman August 19, 2008 05:30 PM
Eric and Bobby are deeply saddened by this great loss, not only to the community at large, but specifically the Camping Community! Ted was the directors' director! He and his banjo will be greatly missed. Eric Shendelman and Bobby Freeman Crestwood Valley Day Camp
Caley Binder August 19, 2008 05:21 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory. My deepest condolences to you and the family. Ted was such a wonderful man who has greatly influenced so many lives. I am forever grateful to have known him. He and his camp have shaped my life forever and is the home to so many fond memories. He will be greatly missed. My thoughts are with you.
Sandy (Frankel) Knobovitch August 19, 2008 05:19 PM
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Ted Cole. When I think of my youth I think of Ted. Walden has brought me some of the best memories in my life. He was such a loving kind beautiful man. At different points throughout the year I put on my Walden cod and just listen to this truly inspirational and beautiful man singing. I always cry as it brings back such fond memories. He has brought so much joy to thousands of children including my own. I am so privileged for having the opportunity to have known such a wonderful man. My heart goes out to the entire family.
Mark Grenville August 19, 2008 05:16 PM
Elaine, Jeffrey sent me an email this morning to tell me the sad news. I am very sorry. My deepest sympathy to you and your Family. Take care of yourself during this very difficult time. Mark
Kim Levitan August 19, 2008 05:16 PM
Ted, you will be missed by so many as you touched so many of our lives. You were such a wonderful man who helped shape mine, along with thousands of others, lives in ways you will never know. Camp Walden was where I grew up for 9 years, and those were truly some of the best years of my life. I will also always remember your sing songs...even today as a tropical storm ripped by me here in Florida, I thought how great it would be to have a Ted Cole sing song, and I played your Walden CD! My deepest condolences to Elaine and family. Sincerely, Kim Levitan
Anndra and Lyle Schwartz August 19, 2008 05:09 PM
We are so sorry to have heard about Ted's passing. We are forever grateful for our experiences at Camp Walden and to the Cole family for creating such a wonderful place for us to spend our summers. It was a place where many of our life-long friendships were created and our most cherished memories made. We will always look back on our summers at Camp as some of the most magical times of our lives. Our thoughts are with you. Anndra and Lyle Schwartz
Isla Adelson August 19, 2008 05:06 PM
Elaine, Ryan, Cory and family, I was deeply saddened to hear about Ted’s passing. I think fondly about our years together in the Valley and with the kids at various schools. May you find strength and comfort in the respect and admiration that was Ted’s and the blessing of wonderful memories.
Gilligan August 19, 2008 05:05 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cole, I am so sorry for your loss. My life was forever changed by Ted and Walden.
Marsha and Shelly Baker August 19, 2008 05:04 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, We probably owe all the joy we have in our lives to the very special man who introduced us to the magic of Camp Walden. As one of the Walden originals, we met at camp, soon after got married and to say Ted had a profound effect on our lives is an understatement. Our memories are numerous and we forged ahead with friendships that will last a lifetime. Ted...you always sang your heart out for all to hear and from here on in there will always be a song in our hearts to remind us of all our wonderful and unforgettable Camp Walden memories. You will be missed by all!!
Gary Topp August 19, 2008 05:04 PM
When I'm asked who influenced me, I always include Ted Cole in the list. I knew Ted when I was a camper/counsellor at Camp Tamarack in the late '50s/early-mid '60s, and although my son never experienced Walden with him, I often relate stories of my summers under the spell of Ted's banjo, 12-string and Muskoka tutelage. Whenever I hear the beautiful songs 'Turn, Turn Turn' or 'The Bells of Rhymney', it's not The Byrds I think of; It's Ted Cole. Although I haven't seen him in a very long time, he's always been a part of my soul, and will remain there. My thoughts are with you.
Michael, Leslie and Mark Gelfand August 19, 2008 05:03 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan, Cory and Family. We are so sorry about your loss. Ted was an unbelievable man who dedicated his life to the happiness of others. His ideals, his enthusiasm and his music will live on through the cherished memories of all who were lucky enough to have known him. We are all very grateful for our time at Walden and for our time with Ted. Our thoughts are with all of you.
Stuart Clapham August 19, 2008 04:53 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan, Cory and the entire Cole family. My deepest condolence to all of you on Ted’s passing. I have spent most of the day thinking about all the great memories I have had with Ted and all of you during my 17 years at Walden and afterwards. My last conversation with Ted was in late February when I called to wish a mazel-tov on the birth of Ryan’s daughter Emma as well as Cory’s marriage which he was getting ready to drive to. Ted was so happy and proud when I was speaking to him and it was nice to get back in touch. My years at Walden will always be remembered fondly. Many of my closest and dearest friends are from my years at Walden. This summer I visited camp for a few hours and while driving up to the camp from the cottage I was listening to the Walden CD and it brought a smile to my face. Driving through the Camp Walden gate is always magical. Ted had a big impact on my life as well as thousands of others and I will never forget him. Love Stuart (or Stuie as Ted always called me)
Hamovitch Family August 19, 2008 04:52 PM
Elaine and Family...Ted's legacy will go 'round and 'round' as hundreds of campers like ours will hold their memories so dear. Hamovitch Family - Rebecca, Noam, Leah, Pam and Greg
Marilyn Zeldin August 19, 2008 04:50 PM
Dearest Elaine, Cory, Ryan and families, There are no words at this time to express how sorry I feel to hear of Ted's passing. His musicality and passion for that gift was inspirational, to say the least. His voice will forever be heard in this person's heart and mind. May you know no further sorrow. With love and more, mez.
Sheldon Rajesky August 19, 2008 04:45 PM
To the Cole Family. Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of Ted. My summers at Camp Walden left me with wonderful experiences and memories. I will always fondly remember the "hearts" games with Ted. May you know no more sorrow.
Frenkel Moher, Vivien August 19, 2008 04:45 PM
Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. May Ted's memory be a blessing to you. Family of Sophie Moher, Camper from Walden
The Walderman Family August 19, 2008 04:35 PM
The entire Walderman family wants to extend our condolences to the Cole family. He was a very special guy in so many ways. Walden was never the same without him. We will all cherish are Ted Memories forever.
Kevin Klayman August 19, 2008 04:35 PM
May we all have such positive and wonderful impact on so many lives. My best to his family and friends.
Michelle Goldberg( Bell) August 19, 2008 04:30 PM
We were so sorry to hear about Ted. Our thoughts are with you. Sincerely, Michelle Goldberg(nee Bell)and family.
Michele Handelman August 19, 2008 04:20 PM
My deepest condolences go out to Elaine and the entire Cole family. Ted’s warmth, kindness and energy impacted the lives of so many. When I think
Michele Handelman August 19, 2008 04:20 PM
My deepest condolences go out to Elaine and the entire Cole family. Ted’s warmth, kindness and energy impacted the lives of so many. When I think about the wonderful memories that I have of my time spent at Walden they are synonymous with Ted and the camp spirit that he instilled upon everyone that was lucky enough to know him. I only have the most cherished memories that will live on for a lifetime. Ted will be greatly missed.
Diane Pullan Wilson August 19, 2008 04:09 PM
Ted made an incredible difference in my life and in the lives of my children. We are fortunate to have known and experienced Ted's tremendous capacity for life. Elaine, our thoughts are with you and your children. Diane Pullan Wilson, Jon, Daniel, Alex and Eric
Judy Petersiel August 19, 2008 04:06 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory: I am so sorry to hear about your terrible loss. My years at Walden hold such strong and wonderful memories for me, and it was clearly Ted's charisma and love for camp that helped form the special feelings we all have for that time and place. I hope knowing how much he gave to all of us and the wonderful memories we all have will help you a little in this very sad time. All my best, Judy Petersiel
Jon Stancer August 19, 2008 03:48 PM
Elaine, Ryan and Cory, I am so sorry about Ted's passing. He was such a wonderful influence and played such a positive role in the lives of so many. He will be greatly missed. I often recall my time at Walden and my friendship with Ted. We laughed and sang together and shared some very memorable times. We will remember his vision, his zest, his voice and of course, his banjo. I wish I could be there on Thursday but I am out of town. I will join you at the Shiva when I return. My thoughts are with you. With love, Jon
Matt Harris August 19, 2008 03:45 PM
Ted touched everyone he ever met. His spark and enthusiasm for camping and children really made you feel like you belonged. Ted will always hold a special place in my life, and I'm thankful for all that he did.
Steven and Melanie Dan August 19, 2008 03:44 PM
We are so grateful for everything you have given to us.
Lori Stein and Louis Quevillon August 19, 2008 03:42 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, We are so sorry for your loss. Camp Walden was the backdrop of many cherished memories and where many of our deepest friendships were formed. We will always be grateful to Ted for creating such a magical environment and we will think of him with admiration and affection.
Cindi Resnick August 19, 2008 03:41 PM
I, too, can think of nothing else today but the passing, all too soon of Ted Cole. I remember him from the days of Camp Arrowhead and always marvelled at the following he had when he went on to build his dream - the big and beautiful Camp Walden. Walden became a huge part of our lives and as parents of Walden campers we always knew that our children were in superb hands. Ted was truly a man of kindness and tolerance; he had a profound impact on the Resnick and Milne families. We will cherish our memories of him.
Jian Magen August 19, 2008 03:33 PM
I have nothing but the most positive and fondest memories of Ted Cole. He inspired me to do everything in life with passion and to give it my all. He was a mentor to me and I only wish I had more opportunities to let him know this. I will miss him dearly and this day truly saddens me. My condolences go out to the entire Cole family.
Rita, Issie and Jeffrey Gross August 19, 2008 03:32 PM
Our deepest sympathies to the entire family. May the love you all shared and many cherished memories bring you comfort in the weeks and months ahead.
Pam Eisen-Goldfarb August 19, 2008 03:31 PM
It is with great sadness and loss that I heard of Ted's passing. He was a special man with the heart and soul of a poet. So many of us (and our children)were blessed to have known him. My deepest sympathy for your loss.
Sandi Teperman August 19, 2008 03:30 PM
Dear Elaine and Family, I am so sorry to have heard of Ted's passing...it seems like yesterday when I came over to say hello to both of you at the hospital and we began to talk about all the wonderful times that my brothers, Steven,Stuart,Sean and I had at the beginning of The Walden Days!!!Oh... Wow. Ted was a wonderful, kind, and musical spirited person. Elaine and Family, my thoughts are with you. All my love, Sandi
Fern Lebo August 19, 2008 03:28 PM
Dear Elaine, I was deeply saddened to hear of Ted's death. He was a unique spirit--a wonderful friend and mentor to so many young people and an important part of so many lives. He will be fondly remembered and greatly missed. My thoughts are with you and your family. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Cameron Swann August 19, 2008 03:27 PM
I am so sorry for the loss of Ted. I always wanted to thank him for accepting me into such a wonderful extended family, and overlooking my mistakes as long as I learned from them. Ted embodied so many qualities which changed not only my life, but the lives of everybody who knew him. Elaine, Ryan, Cory, my thoughts are with you.
Carly Steinberg August 19, 2008 03:26 PM
I cannot describe the impact that Walden has had and will, undoubtedly, continue to have on my life. That being said, it is completely impossible to separate any of my Walden memories from the memory of Ted, whose presence at camp was, and continues to be, so completely intertwined with the Walden spirit. His music, his passion, and so much else that defined him and so many of our summers will continue to live on all of us as we remember the wonderful times that we experienced at Walden. He will forever be loved and deeply missed. Sincerest and heartfelt sympathies to Elaine and family - May you find some comfort in knowing just how many lives he changed for the better. Ted & Elaine - Thank you. With love always, Carly
Deedee Weinstein August 19, 2008 03:20 PM
There are truly no words to express the sadness that I am feeling. A tremendous light has been extinguished in the universe of so many people. We are so sad about the news that many of us were greeted with this morning. Ted Cole will be missed by thousands of people. I feel honoured to be amongst the thousands and extremely blessed that both Ted&Elaine stayed close over the years, you watched as we turned from children into adults and there was nothing more special than the opportunity to hand our own children over to the spell of Walden's beauty. To Elaine and family with much love and sadness.
Andrew Zinman August 19, 2008 03:20 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, There are few childhood memories I cling to in order to help me through my moments of doubt, despair and frustration; Cole in Concert is at the forefront and has been permanently etched in my mind. Ted was like a surrogate summertime father to so many of us, his legacy and the joy he brought to all of us will likely never be paralleled. We are so sorry for your loss and you have the deepest sympathies from the Zinman family.
lynda and jessica rapp August 19, 2008 03:15 PM
Dear Cole Family, We were saddened to learn of Ted's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy at this difficult time. Sincerely, Lynda and Jessica Rapp
Laurie Morris August 19, 2008 03:12 PM
To Elaine, Cory & Ryan; Ted will be sorely missed by many. He had a tremendous impact on those who knew him. Please accept out sorrow in Ted's passing. Rena & Laurie Morris
Alex Birenbaum and Karen Walzer August 19, 2008 03:05 PM
Dear Elaine and family, We can say that Ted was not simply our camp director. He was a role model, a confidant, and an essential part of our Walden summers. His songs, his passion, and his love of camp will forever remain in our hearts. We hope to pass the experiences we have from camp to our children, and for that, we will forever thank Ted Cole. "For long you live and high you fly, For smiles you give and tears you cry, For all you touch and all you see Is all your life will ever be." – Pink Floyd Our thoughts and wishes are with you, Elaine, and your family. Love always and forever, Karen (Memphis) Walzer and Alex Birenbaum "...And as dreamers we'll keep dreaming on."
Lori Konigsberg Manis August 19, 2008 02:55 PM
Dear Cole family, I am so sorry for your loss. I can't express in words the incredible impact that Ted and Walden had on my childhood. He was truly one in a million and his spirit (and music)lives on in all of us. He will be greatly missed. All my love, Lori Konigsberg Manis
Harry & Shelley Blaier August 19, 2008 02:54 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan, Cory and family: Ted's passing saddens us both tremendously. Although our time with you, Elaine, and with Ted, was mostly within the context of the camp, it never stopped at the camp gate and in our hearts it will be something we cherish forever. All our love, Harry and Shelley Blaier
Tara Resnick August 19, 2008 02:53 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Skip Connett August 19, 2008 02:52 PM
Elaine - So sorry to hear of Ted's passing today. The friendship of both of you holds a very warm spot in my heart and I'm sure for everyone else who has had the good fortune to enjoy your company and your super hospitality over the years. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Love from Skip and the kids.
Debbie Zinman August 19, 2008 02:51 PM
Dear Ryan, Cory and Elaine-- I have nothing but fond memories of Ted. He loved nature and adored kids and was committed in his life to giving children the opportunity to experience the beauty of natural settings, camp and friendship. I am so sorry for the pain you must feel and I wish you comfort and strength in knowing how much your father/husband positively impacted so many kids, over so many years.
THE SHNEER FAMILY August 19, 2008 02:50 PM
Dearest Elaine and Family, It is with the greatest sadness that the news of Ted's death just reached us. We are in Paris and not going to be able to be at the funeral. All of our three children, Lauren, Josh and Danny take with them beautiful and lasting memories of Camp Walden, the TED-mobile and of course Ted's famous sing-songs. Thank you for all you, Ted and your family have done for ours. We send our love and deepest sympathies to you and your family. With love, The Shneer Family
Howie Honickman August 19, 2008 02:44 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cole, I am so sorry for your loss. Ted was a great mentor to everyone. I will truly miss him. My best wishes to you all. Love, Howie
Robert Vineberg August 19, 2008 02:42 PM
Ted was one of the greatest men that I have ever been lucky enough to have known, and he will be sadly missed by all others who have been as fortunate. It is with deep regret that I never took the opportunity to call Ted up after all these years since camp and let him know just how big of an influence he played on my life. I still turn and smile when I hear the roar of an ATV, and I turn my head as a reflex looking for Ted on the Polaris giving some lucky kid a ride. My thoughts, prayers and sympathies are with all of you.
Morton Wolfson August 19, 2008 02:40 PM
It is with profound sadness that we receive the news of Ted's death. We remember him as a warm, eager camp director whose campers and staff adored him, including my children. We offer our deepest sympathy to his wife Elaine and children. Mort and Renee Wolfson
Naomi Granik Blumer August 19, 2008 02:27 PM
Words cannot express how much Ted meant to me and my family. He was an extraordinary person and I will always cherish the time I spent with him and Elaine and camp. My sympathies to all, with all my love and respect,
Ryan (Richardson) Jackson August 19, 2008 02:24 PM
Dear Elaine, Cory and Ryan, I am so sorry to hear about Ted's passing. He was a very important part of my 7 summers at Walden, which were so special to me. He, along with Elaine, created such a welcoming summer home that I will never forget. I remember Ted's famous sing-a-longs, and can't get the "Walden" song out of my head today, after hearing the sad news. I wish you the best in the coming days, and hope that you find comfort in everyone's memories of your wonderful husband and father. Love, Ryan
Ellen Nash August 19, 2008 02:20 PM
Too soon, too soon.
Holly Diamond August 19, 2008 01:54 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan, Cory and family, I am truly saddened to hear of Ted's passing. The memories I have of him and all of you will never be forgotten. He was a wonderfully funny and comforting man who made every Walden day a special one. From sing alongs to cabin visits he will always be remembered as the heart of Camp Walden. Thank you Ted, for making those summer days so special and precious and for giving me a lifetime of amazing memories. Love, Holly Diamond
Rachel Chertkoff August 19, 2008 01:49 PM
Dear Elaine, Ryan and Cory, there are no words for your loss. I have very warm memories of Ted. The community mourns with you today.
Lise Wolfson August 19, 2008 01:48 PM
I am so sad that we have lost such a great guy. It was such a honour as a child to have Ted as a camp director, friend and mentor. I later loved passing on that honour to our kids. The memories are all so great and the friendships and relationships have held strong since my old camp days. Elaine I can only tell you how sorry I am but I know that I will remember Ted for the rest of my life. With tons of love Lise
adrienne zubata zylberberg August 19, 2008 01:22 PM
dear Elaine and family, I was saddened to the core to hear of Ted’s passing. he was the source of many precious and cherished summers in my life. I am lucky to have known such an incredible man and champion belcher! my heart is with you. there is a bit of ted in all of us who experienced Walden, especially the early, treasured years. and the dreamer keeps a dreamin... thank you ted for the best of times. love, adrienne zubata zylberberg
Stephen R. Foreht August 19, 2008 12:54 PM
I'm devastated to hear of Ted's passing. He was for me, as I know he was for thousands of others, a critical part of my childhood and my growth. You can celebrate the love that Ted received, and the incredible impact that he had on so many people's lives. Rarely a day goes by that I don't think of Walden and Ted. I am a better person from having known him, and will miss him dearly.
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